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    Hey all, just a quick one... we were playing with a couple last friday night, and she was giving me a great BJ after we'd had sex. the type that you know she's trying to make you cum.

    Now i didn't want to cum in her mouth without making sure she was fine with it. or pull it out and cum on her without finding the same. but i was also a bit unsure of how to "approach" the situation

    how do you guys bring this up

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    Default Re: Cumming in her mouth

    "I'm about to come" is what I usually say. Might as well be straight up about it.

    It works both as encouragement to those ladies that want you to, and as a warning for those that don't.
    "I need a quickie"
    "That happens to be my specialty!"

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    Default Re: Cumming in her mouth

    I would probably just ask her where she wants it. Aside from that, we usually communicate those types of things before things get going, like when we're discussing likes and dislikes.

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    Default Re: Cumming in her mouth

    "If you keep that up, I'm gonna cum"...how she responds to that tells you whether she wants you to or not.

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    ^^ Agree with the above.
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    Umm.. if none of the above offered statements workk..

    Ask...

    Something simple like, Im gonna cum, where do you want it? If she re doubles her efforts.. the answer is obvious

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    Usually I'll pull her off for a second and let her know, if she keeps that up - I'm going to cum. Then I figure, the ball's in her court and she can keep on going or what at her discretion.
    Have some... you'll want some more an hour later

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    I often say " you got me close... Where do you want it?"
    She is happy and I am happy, just as it should be

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    Quote Originally Posted by NakedInSeattle View Post
    "If you keep that up, I'm gonna cum"...how she responds to that tells you whether she wants you to or not.
    Precisely the same approach we recommend.

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    Of course there is always the silent approach..

    Let em keep going til you explode, then if they freak.. just tell em..

    Hey its like a hand grenade.. play with it long enough its gonna go off..

    LOL

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    Were you holding on to it or was she ?

    If she had ahold of it and had the controll..... like above just say "I'm cumming."

    Don't grab the back of her head and hold her on it. Unless you talk about it before head..... I mean before hand.

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    I know it's best for Mrs. Opp when the guy asks where she wants it... she usually likes it on her face or neck/chest.

    However, if we're at a club and she thinks she might be playing more, she'll take it in her mouth or somewhere less messy for the next boy/girl.

    A little word of advice... when you ask her, find a clear voice.

    Last night she was with a new boy who was fucking her missionary and when he was ready to cum, he rubbed her stomach. From my chair next to them, i heard him grumble 'do you want it here', and she said yes.

    Later I asked her why she wanted it on her stomach instead of her face/neck as usual. It turns out she didn't understand him and thought he was asking if he could put it on her stomach... not if she wanted it there as opposed to somewhere else.

    So just ask audibly... she will tell you what she wants either verbally or physically.

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    Default Re: Cumming in her mouth

    It usually takes me a while to get off from oral, even after much previous stimulation, but sometimes the "feeling" is there at unexpected times. So, whenever I get to the point that there's going to be no "point of return" I warn her that if she continues with that oral motion I'm going to cum. Once she knows that, it's her choice, as far as I'm concerned.

    And if it's someone I haven't been with before, I give that warning, plus the couple of seconds before, "I'm gonna cum...aaah...aaah...," type of warning.

    I try to be polite.

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    we're with everybody else, just a s k!

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    Quote Originally Posted by fun4Ds View Post
    Were you holding on to it or was she ?

    If she had ahold of it and had the controll..... like above just say "I'm cumming."

    Don't grab the back of her head and hold her on it. Unless you talk about it before head..... I mean before hand.
    Lol, she was holding onto it. i don't get the "holding the back of the head" thing... i much prefer to let them show me their technique

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