Living in Utah I can attest that there are many active Mormon couples in the Lifestyle, and I've swung with them and Catholics that would play until 3:00 AM or so and then go to church in the morning with rug-burned knees. 

I've never swapped spouses for a period of time, but being polyamorous both my ex-wife and I spent weekends and such with our other partners.

Ummm. Yeah... No.

Those rules are HUGE red flags for me. Creepy, controlling, and borders on kidnapping. To each their own, but I would have ended the night right there and blocked them on the swinger's site. 

6 hours ago, Half MT said:

Do other women want to be gangbanged?

I read gangbangs are man fantasy not anything most women want. I was exhausted after having sex with 2 men without a rest. Even with a break I was sore the next day with five actual sex. Sex with several men is quite different from having multiple sex with my husband in a night. 

I've always though the opposite -- kind of.  I've done and watched quite a few gangbangs and have noticed that it can be kind of awkward for the men.  You usually have two or three guys who are occupied with the girl at one time and the rest are just hanging around, trying to stay hard and hoping their turn comes soon.  You can tell they want to tap in but some aren't sure about the etiquette and it can get a little weird.

There are some groups of guys out there who do gangbangs pretty routinely, so they all know each other and kind of have the script down.  I have found that I enjoy those gangbang groups because everything goes pretty smoothly and you don't have the awkwardness that you would have with a group of random guys who don't know each other. 

I've never seen a  girl get gangbanged who didn't really want to be gangbanged.  That includes myself. 

4 hours ago, Half MT said:

Do other women want to be gangbanged?

I read gangbangs are man fantasy not anything most women want.

I user to think that, but in our 27 years of LS experience we have seen a few women who love it.

One night at one of our fave clubs (that allows single males) we saw a woman take on what appeared to be a dozen guys.  It was quite a spectacle.  Later that evening we bumped into her and I asked how many men she had.  Her only answer was "Not enough. Never enough".