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    What Is a Gangbang?

    A gangbang is a sexual scenario where one person has sex with many (four or more) people of the opposite sex at the same time. Women are most often the center of a gangbang while enjoying the attention of multiple men. A gangbang can have as many participants as you desire. A gangbang can also occur where one man has sex with many women at the same time. This referred to as a reverse gangbang.

     

    How Do Gangbangs Work?

    Since there are only so many ways that a single woman can please other people, the number of participants at one time may be limited. If there are more men than available than the woman can accommodate at one time, she may want to invite a 'fluffer.' A fluffer's job is to keep any men who are not actively participating in the gangbang at that moment hard or to get them hard. For extremely large gangbangs, you may need multiple fluffers.

     

    How Do You Find Participants?

    Unless you already know a large number of people who are interested in joining your gangbang, you may find it challenging to arrange enough men. If you've had several MFM encounters, you may have built up a pool of men to draw from for this activity. Ask those guys first and see how many positively respond before you branch out into unknown territory. Keep in mind that even men who are comfortable with threesomes may find they aren't comfortable in a gangbang scenario.

     

    When drawing from a pool of unknown men, you will find that half (or less) of the men you invite actually show up. Unfortunately, many men who not experienced in gangbangs (or swinging of any kind) find the idea appealing, but when faced with reality, not so much. The best way to find participants is to search for a local gangbang group. You can often find these on internet groups or by talking to other swinger friends in your area who might know a group. If seeking men on your own, stick to single men on swinger lifestyle websites that have certifications showing that they are experienced swingers. While they may not have experience in gangbangs, at least they've had sex with other people in the room.

     

    What Should I Expect?

    In my opinion, there are two types of gangbangs. The first is a gangbang where the girl is the center of attention and getting attention from more than one guy at a time (and giving attention to more than one guy at a time). If you are the guy in this type of gangbang, understand up front that you will not be getting the undivided attention of a woman. Your job is to give her your full attention! While you won't get her full attention, you hopefully will get enough of her attention to ensure that you have a great evening.

     

    The second type of gangbang is a "train." This is what most people envision when they think of a gangbang. A train is basically a line of guys waiting, cock in hand, to have sex with a girl as she lies back and takes them on. In this situation the guy is more likely to get the female's full attention when it is his turn. When planning a gangbang, consider which type you'd prefer and be sure to make your participants aware of what you expect.

     

    Where Should We Have It?

    The best place to have a gangbang is anywhere that you are comfortable. However, I would not advise inviting a bunch of guys you don't know over to your house. A hotel is probably the best choice. Make sure you get a room that is big enough to accommodate the number of people you hope to have show up. You may want to get a suite with an adjoining sitting area, to have room to spread out. Don't forget the necessary supplies like lube and condoms. Make sure to have plenty of your preferred condom on hand, as well as your favorite lube. You're likely to get a little dry after a couple of hours.

     

    When planning your first gangbang, go into it with an open attitude and the understanding that it may not turn out as you hope or plan. Invite at least twice as many men as you'd like to have show up, and know that you'll have a good time with whoever shows up, even if it's just one guy.

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    Great article. My husband and I are new to the lifestyle but our main interest has been gangbangs. Here are some specifics, based on the guidelines in this article.

     

    So far, I have had two gangbangs. We were lucky enough to find a somewhat local (within 30-45 minutes) gangbang group who set both up for me. At each event, I was the only female and there were six men involved.

     

    I have to agree with the part about there being two types of gangbangs but I need to add that there is also a hybrid gangbang which would be a blend of the two. My first gangbang had times where I was with several men at once and times where I was with them one at a time, one after the other. At my second gangbang, I received attention of at least 2 men the entire time. Both types of activity were a lot of fun for me, and honestly, I don't know which one is like best. Both have advantages and I hope to continue engaging in both.

     

    One last note. We jumped into the lifestyle with both feet and have started with gangbangs. I can not comment on using guys from MFM experiences to build a gangbang group. However, I can say that the reverse is true. We are about to play with our first single male who me met in the gangbang group. We are looking forward to playing with others from the group as well.

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    Is a gangbang "swinging?" I think it is a turn-on, but I pose this question for discussion.

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    Is a gangbang "swinging?" I think it is a turn-on, but I pose this question for discussion.

     

    I'd say it depends on whether we are talking about a single girl taking on a bunch of guys, or a couple arranging it as part of a fantasy. It could be argued in many ways.

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    We have never been in a gangbang, and, the thought or a scenario of watching multiple men fucking your wife/gf/so sounds quite a challenge for the man. There must be some reason women love a gangbang, where multiple men play with her sexually and then stick their penises in her vagina in a group, train, or, whatever, and fuck her.

     

    Can someone, a woman preferably, explain the attraction to the woman (or man) of a gangbang. We presume that her hubby or bf watches while she has intercourse with many guys at the same time. We are not against trying or experiencing a gangbang. Just curious.

     

    Is gangbang style swinging common, and, what percentage of swingers participate in gangbangs? We would love to get some answers from those couples that have done gangbangs.

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    As a man, I would find it a turn on to see my wife pleased by multiple men at one time. However, when I suggested it, my wife thinks it would be overwhelming. I wouldn't mind trying a dp, but never have.

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    We have arranged gangbangs on two occasions and hope to have our third in January. I very much like the attention, the sexual pleasure that many men can provide, and the slightly overwhelming feeling (in that order). I am also what you might call a 'pleaser' which is also a big part of the turn-on.

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