We had a date this weekend. I was really looking forward to it, since we really like this couple. Unfortunately, the male half imbibed a bit too much, and it affected his performance.
While I know it wasn’t his intention, and it had nothing to do with me, it was just one more thing that put a chink in my self confidence.
I even began questioning whether I wanted to continue putting up with this frustration, and told Mr. Sweet I was done with the lifestyle.
He knew I was frustrated,
I find myself in a unique situation.... I am 53 years old and still NON MENOPAUSAL!!! So I trot my happy self off to the Gynecologist for some reliable birth control. J and I are new to the LS so talking about this to my GYN is somewhat stressful to say the least! No where near as stressful as a pregnancy would be since J had a vasectomy in 1983....
I also have a newly aquired a hood piercing and am clean shaven (also new). OMG, What is the Doc going to think?
OK , Doc comes in and asks, Y
So I talked Mr. Sweet into adding a day to our trip to Temptations next month, but we’re having a devil of a time managing it. It took C a few phone calls to get a human with half a clue on the phone, only to find out they want to anally rape us by charging us $500 extra to do that.
After learning this, we spent a few hours online (separately, as he’s still out of town) hunting down a better deal. We found them, but when he called Expedia to cancel the trip with them, they could only offe
Last week was another rough one, so I was really looking forward to my hubby’s return home. When I got home from work, there was a package waiting for me. My honey sent me flowers! It really made my day, and I couldn’t wait to show him my appreciation. Alas, the traffic on his way home from the airport put him almost an hour behind schedule, and I fell asleep before he got home.
Saturday night, we enjoyed a lovely dinner out before heading to our favorite Meet & Greet. It was sup
It's only been three years since we got into this, but it seems a lot longer. At this point, I'm not even sure anyone would say we are actually still in the LS. Since the beginning, I (the male) have never been accepted into the lifestyle, except for MFM's with my wife or watching. It has been a constant wonder to me how many married guys, who's profiles say they only play as couples, have made requests to play with my wife (with or without me).
But, I digress. Through the last three years,
Last night we had friends over for dinner and playtime. After dinner we were all in the hot tub for a bit and my playmate and I got out to head inside for more play, leaving wife and her playmate in the hot tub. Mindlessly I locked the sliding door when we went in. Later after we were done playing we were commenting that my and wife and her husband had not come in yet. Then we heard a noise downstairs. At first I though it was them opening the door, but it was them banging on the glass, he
For the prelude... anyone who doesn't know, J is out of town for the next 2 weeks and I am out of commission so to speak.
We have talked about hood piercing and I have always been more then curious about having it done. heck anything to rev things up is all good with me
J is out of town and I walk into the Tattoo/Piercing establishment. there are two young men there their ages do not combine to equal mine but WTF.
I inquire about hood piercing. After split second pause the Eric the pi
The random blog brought old ramblings to mind. I know that my body type does not fit some folks ideal but then I fit some others to a T! Am I a BBW, vuluptuous or just plain fat? WTF does it matter any way?
I discovered years ago that I only had to please me and the others could go pound sand. I felt like a failure when I dieted, I could get a Bachelors Degree easier than I can lose 20 pounds.
I am happy, gregarioius, loving and have a wicked sense of humor. If others can't see past the pl
we had our first soft swing success (if you want the details, it is on the first encounters forum link) and it led to a really revved-up the weekend with Mr. J, WOW was he on so to speak!! He has never been so interested, not even at age 20 when we first started dating and having sex
But now for the let down, he has left for a LONG business trip, durn it! and I won't see him for 2 weeks minimum up to possibly as long as 4 weeks and this is just too long for me to be content. I wonder what th
Hi there! Long time no write. Mr. Swingly and I have had a few more experiences since my last post. We've met some nice people and done some fun stuff. But last night was probably the most fun we've had so far.
Back on December 30, we went to day number 2 of New Horizons' New Year's party and met and played with a couple there. It was a great experience overall - at least I've come to see it that way in retrospect.
Anyway, we've been chatting with this couple via a shared email acco
Mrs. Swingly here, ya'll....Weeeeeell... let me just say that we had fun, fun, fun! We only got about 4 hours worth of sleep before we had to get up for work this morning, but it was worth it. That fact gives rise to another "big lesson":
Big Swinging Lesson No. 2: When swinging on a work night, make sure to give yourself a clear curfew, let the other couple know and stick to it. Otherwise, prepared to be knackered!
Okay, but that's the only big lesson that came out of our meeting wi
Hi All - it's Mrs. Swingly here just checking in to share that Mr. Swingly and I have our first couple date tomorrow night with a couple we met on Swinglifestyle. Mr. Swingly and I had decided early on that we would not "host" any two-on-two get togethers until we had a better handle on all this. So we're not. The other couple is cool with it and, although we suggested splitting the cost of a room, they insisted on covering it. After some protest, I agreed to let that happen. So tonight I'm
Mr Swingly here, and I'm happy to report our first ever event was a success. I would say about 9/10.
We arrived at about 8:15 because we're new and we had an orientation to attend. It turns out that this worked to our advantage because by the time the regulars showed up (closer to 10) the parking situation was reportedly hectic.
Our night began with a tour of the facility, it's not complicated. Mrs and I sat around with the new couples making somewhat nervous small talk. Then we had the in
Well, we've had our first swinging experience. It didn't start out great because my new outfit from SexyLingerie.com didn't make it here in time for the event. Despite the fact that I paid for expedited shipping! So, I wasn't feeling all pretty and like I was going to look hot - but I put on my leather mini, my fishnets and a satin top and called it good. We packed our bag with towlels and I put in another outfit that was from last Valentine's day (it was red...I was trying to go with the Ch
Well, we're going down an invsible checklist getting ready for our first event at a local on-premises club. The event is Friday and here's what we've done so far:
1. Mrs. Swingly: ordered outfit from the internet. Green satin corset with black lace, matching thong and opera length black satin gloves with black fishnets; check! (I plan to wear a skirt over all of this, using the corset as my top for the earlier part of the evening) When it's time to get naughty, skirt comes off, butt stic
I found out today that two parties to which we were invited have been cancelled. The last party we were signed up for was cancelled, too. I had outfits ready for each of them. And one of them was on New Year's Eve.
We also had a date for last night that got cancelled earlier in the week. I'm beginning to think we're jinxed or something.
And we could really use some fun, what with the stress of Mr. Sweet being on travel all week and some kid stuff going on.
Off to SLS to see wh
Well, I have been lurking on this site for many years and have added very little to the content. My plight is probably very similar to many that come here and lurk or even participate in the conversation. I would like to get involved in the lifestyle and my wife is reluctant.
First, for some background information about us. We dated in high school, married about 5 years later. She had a serious boyfriend before I came along while I never really dated much or was that sexually active
Hello all! Mrs. Swingly here . . .
My husband (that's Mr. Swingly) and I are both very new to the site, and have not yet had our first adventure (though we have had some mind-boggling sex just talking about it for the past month!). This site has been so helpful for us as we've come up with questions and scenarios, that I thought I might be able to give something back by starting a blog here for noobs to read.
I'm a big-blogger in my vanilla life and run several successful ones in various
A while ago I asked a certain person who had been in the swinging lifestyle what they had learned over the years.
I expected to receive a few words of wisdom from their many encounters and experiences but alas the other only thing that person had to say was a flat resounding "Nothing"
Well we have been in it for only a year and it has been a roller coaster ride the whole time.
I have learned many things. I have grown closer to my wife because of the things I have learned and I think c
Stranger things have happened, I suppose, but I'd be hard pressed to think of any at the moment.
A couple with whom we used to play has gone splitsville. That in and of itself is not so unusual, nor is it that I/we "got" him out of the pending divorce.
And it might not even be that odd that Mr. Sweet and I are still Facebook friends with her. But here's where it does get weird. I got a private message from her asking me to find out about an item he wants for Christmas. Of all the
We helped celebrate a l/s friend's birthday last nite and the festivities started at a strip club. It was quite an interesting evening. Eventually the dancers knew were were a group of swingers.
We were there last January with a small group, and at that time the women (in our group) were not allowed to dance or grind on their husband or playmates lap. So last nite we were on our good behavior, but the manager let the "genie" out of the bottle by telling us we can do what we want (within
Here is one of the important virtue for success living:
Chastity – Chastity refers to acceptable sexual behavior among men and women that is in line with the moral norms and guiding principles of a society, people, or religion. It has to do with abstinence from sexual intercourse except within the bonds of matrimony.
The acceptable behavior calls for abstinence from sexual intercourse before marriage and fidelity after marriage. This is at the soul of every society and culture. Any people
