This is being posted by me, but comes from both MrsCoupleErotic22 and myself.
Had you asked me 20 years ago, even two years ago, if we would consider swinging, my initial response would have been laughter followed by a resounding no. I imagine my wife’s response would have been the same, sans laughter. She agrees.
I see people come to the forums with lifestyle questions looking for advice. The first question that comes to mind is, do they have complete, open and honest communication and a
After discovering the need to adjust Der Houndt’s harness, I decided to weigh him. This required me to step on the scale with and without the pup. I was shocked to discover that I am now at my highest non-pregnant weight again. This put me in kind of a funk, as I had started trying to exercise and eat better a few weeks ago.
Before the funk could fully set in, a couple gentlemen I met at the house party we attended last month started to chat me up. It felt really good to realize that n
I decided to play dress up tonight for my honey and stuffed myself into my red satin corset, lacy blue panties, white stripper boots, and Wonder Woman cape. (Yes, I know Wonder Woman didn’t wear a cape, but they sell them for $5.00 at Six Flags Great Adventure and I bought one on a lark.) Oh yes, and let’s not forget a gold bangle bracelet on each wrist.
After pictures were taken, Wonder Wife took her favorite thug into custody, intent on using her powers of seduction to fight for truth,
Artie, Artie. What ever happened to us? I went to the high-school reunion hoping you would be there. Then I heard from my former heart-throb, Mary, that you had collapsed while at your office, just three months before, a heart attack, you did not make it. Oh, God. What happened to us? Why did we not stay in-touch? What kind of life did you have? A good one, I hope. We were such great friends. You and I had our first illegal alcoholic drink at a piano bar in Wildwood. We had our first l
I'll flat out admit it, I really hate the fact that as a reserved soft-spoken male I seem invisible at swing parties/clubs. I absolutely love seeing my gf have fun and also playing with her out in the open for others to watch. But my ability to attract swing partners is completely nil. No crying about it, it simply is what it is. I still have yet to believe that an overweight, introverted male (I'm an INFP for you Meyer's-Briggs devotees scoring @ home) can have fun to the same extent a more out
Over the last week or so, Mr. Sweet and I have talked about the changes in our lifestyle pace since we began. We started off on the roaring rapids, with loads of opportunities coming our way. We then settled into more of a patio boat pace. We were moving along with a steady group of friends, hooking up when time allowed. Then we were dry docked for awhile, due to my mom’s illness. (She’s doing MUCH better now, by the way). We tried restarting the motor on the patio boat, but it just wasn’t
How do we decide whom to trust in the lifestyle? Are we too trusting at times? Other times, do we cheat ourselves out of some good times by not trusting enough? A few things have made me wonder about this question lately.
If you read my last blog entry, you know CXXC and I had a fabulous time alone together. I had absolutely no qualms about going off alone with him. He's been posting here for years, and what he writes shows him consistently to be a person of good character. We've corres
It has been a very nice weekend. Dusted off my fifty-years-old eighty-power, reflector telescope yesterday evening and took advantage of the remarkably clear sky to observe the mountains of the Moon. I wondered what Galileo thought to himself when he first say these mountains. "Oh, shit. When the Pope hears about this, my ass is grass." Or maybe he was simply caught up in the wonder of it, like I was. I hope it is clear again this evening.
Dave and I went out last night to a LS friend's house for dinner. One thing led to another and before you knew it, we all had our clothes off and was havin' a blast!! Jeez, that felt good. Our 7 months of not being able to do anything is over.
For the last two weeks both PB and I have been off work, and instead of planning some epic road trip, we decided to just amuse ourselves as best we could. Not sure why I'm going to tell you the whole tale except I think that it has something to say about why the Lifestyle has worked out so well for us.
We started out going to a club, which for us is a hit-or-miss thing, since neither of us are particularly good at the whole mingling thing. So we ended up in the back room just us, which doesn'
I promised a report on "The Grove", so here it is. It's long, so if you want pertinent info, skip to the end and if I didn't answer anything you want to know, just ask.
First let me say this may not be your typical trip report. For those of you who've read any of our post and/or my blogs, you probably know that Ted and I don't get to spend a lot of time together, and more times than not, when we do get the chance to be together we're very selfish with each other and just enjoy sitting, hold
I can't quite decide where to begin... except to try to describe what sets CXXC apart from other playmates. There is a degree of perceptiveness, of what is working and what might work better... he read my body like a book and then played it like a violin. He is unusually aware of subtle signals (as well as not-so-subtle ones). It helped that he had *thoroughly* interviewed me a few weeks beforehand on my sexual likes and dislikes. I think there may have been Space Shuttle missions that were
It is best to live without expectations. That way, you are never disappointed when things don’t work out the way you planed them! Such is the case of my recent experience.
In the last year or so, I have been communication with this individual through swingersboard, Yahoo and texts! It has been a great learning experience and ever better friendship! What I have learned from her I will use with Mrs. CXXC. This is the perfect relationship if you ask me! It is a great give and take!
As I
My husband and I met years ago in college, and when we were dating, we had a few threesomes with one of his best friends, and one of mine. We have been talking about having one again, and he has totally gotten off on wanting to see me with another man. When we get there, we will be safe, but in the meantime he has expressed interest in eating me out afterward (we weren't "safe" with his friend, but knew there was no chance of an STD)
Last night, I forced him to go down on me after he came,
As per my previous blog entry, Ted and I are headed to The Grove this weekend. It's clothing optional and when given the option of wearing clothes or not wearing clothes, we're going to choose NOT to wear clothes.
I'm in the process of trying to pack and I've got THREE suitcases packed What the hell is wrong with this picture? I don't understand. I text Ted and asked him and his only answer was..."It takes a lot of accessorizing to look good nekkid"...
One suitcase is full of noth
Saturday night Mr.Sweet and I attended a house party which promised to be a great time. Several of the “old gang” from our favorite Meet & Greet (now disbanded) were set to attend, as well as some new (to us) folks.
We arrived early, as the hosts are close friends and we were in charge of transporting some of the refreshments and party supplies. This gave us plenty of time to relax and greet our friends and the other guests.
To help get the party started, I volunteered to join th
Le sigh.
There are so many out there... why so difficult to find a good one?
First one- turned out to be a local guy; even though we both advertised as being from a city an hour away, he actually lived 7 mins away. He was married, but his wife wasn't too into playing, and we met her and she said she was okay with it, so the three of us played several times. Good times. Then he started getting more interested in guy-on-guy, which we weren't into, and he decided I made a great confidante and sta
Earlier this week, we canceled plans for tonight with a single male we know. We canceled because a new couple we're trying to meet said they could get a sitter, but only for tonight, not for Friday night as we had previously discussed.
The fact that I'm sitting here writing this, gives a pretty good hint at what's happened. Our new couple had their sitter cancel on them. I suppose we could have tried to do something else, but we didn't. We're.... just.... here. We pretty much got what
Holy Shit!! Look at those sexy eyes staring back at me!!! And the way her hips sway when she walks across the room... Her long dark shimmering hair and gossamer mini-dress ambush my imagination. I quickly become convinced of the overwhelming probability we can make some incredible smiles together. Periscope UP (three eyes are always better than two). Have I seen her before,, somewhere? She looks a little familiar, but not quite registering in my memory. The way she stares at me means either I h
Ted's been home since last Saturday and we've been having a blast! It's the first time in months we've actually spent more than two nights in a row in bed with each other. We've been doing our damnedest to make up for lost time with each other...we've been burning up the sheets.
We've been celebrating!
Tomorrow night at 7:30, he and I will be FREE Our youngest graduates from high school. We've waited over 26 years for this day to come and it's finally here.
Even though we'
Wow! It's been a while since I rambled here...but the weather has reached 'Pool Condition 1', so I use laptop-in-the-lounger as a way of not over-napping. (Gotta pace myself!)
A recent topic that I responded to reminded me of something that has become increasingly annoying to us over the last few years - Swingers who are looking for guaranteed play.
The first rule of swinging is 'No means No' - and an extension of that is, we have always thought, 'there is no circumstance that makes that n
I turn 50 next week. And I am having the time of my life!!
My sweet PB is hosting 2 parties for me. This Saturday night I get the house party... on my actual birthday I get the open house. While I have given into reality and decided to make some food for the parties (you have to understand... I AM the party food queen!- with control issues), my basic role is to enjoy myself. Oh, I will.
I have some of my favourite people attending the house party... one of them at least bringing some leat
Of course it's important to have a few friends. Many of us are of a personality persuasion labeled 'INTJ' and by definition that means we are less likely to have many folks we consider friends. Friends share a common interest and share some fun moments in an activity together. The relationship has a mutual benefit or falls apart over time.
The sex-based friendship has a very interesting twist. Somehow, discussing the nth detail of a metal machining operation on home shop equipment seems somew
