We can all laugh about it now. But at the time, it was a little unsettling. A man and a woman with whom we have recently become acquainted have lifestyle house parties about once a month. My wife and I were enjoying ourselves at our third such party, up on the third floor of the house. The host pops his head into the room and announces, "just so you know, the police are here. You might not want to go out onto the deck unless you have your cloths on."
One of the salient features of one of th
The way this man mind fucks me.... I hate it so much I bend over and ask for more.... I have GOT to see him to this to another woman and just watch...that brings erotic to next level... I am a part of him I crave to obey him I crave to do or take whatever he tells me to to eventually forgive me for past mistakes..... I love being his trashy ass whore .... its who I am In the bed room it's who my soul connects with.....but I want to sit and watch him with another woman I want to see her faces I w
My wife and I have enjoyed four weekends in succession at private house parties.
* Invitation received from people with whom we'd had SLS exchanges but had not before met in-person. Flattering but we arrived at their very nice home and realized that we were at least 20 years older than any of the other attendees. That did not bother us and did not bother the younger people but the lack of play reinforces our impression that young people tend to circle each other all evening and seldom end up
My new friend lives three hours away. We've been friends for a while, but only recently got intimate.
Thankfully, my new friend lives three hours away.
Admittedly it's a NRE thing. She's a vanilla and I've been clear about my marriage. She's met Mrs.Stop and thinks the world of her.
But you can tell from our conversations that there is a little something extra under the surface. I won't deny it on my end, but that's not that same as dreaming of running off with her.
But we've said doz
There have been lots of things going on lately in my personal life so I haven't been very active here, but one thing I felt I need to write a bit about is that this is our 10th anniversary in the lifestyle! Of those 10 years, I've been on this board for 8. I've never counted but my sex partners are probably in 3-digit territory. My husband frequently jokes that I've had so many partners of different nationalities and ethnicity that I can hold a UN meeting inside my vagina. That's an exaggera
My wife and I are visiting this weekend with our Philadelphia daughter. The occasion is the fitting for her wedding dress. I was asked yesterday if I would lead her down the aisle. You might be thinking "naturally", but I am not her biological father. Her biological father tries to remain in her life but often fails in his efforts. He's not a bad man and if I knew him in any other context, such as being a next-door neighbor, I'd think he was a great guy. His flaw is that if you look up the word
I went to dinner with crazed before Valentines and an ad caught my eye for a jewelry store. It reminded me that I really want to get a new wedding band. I shared this with crazed and his comments made me realize that my ring is special to me. I can't wear it because the diamond is chipped and the store will not resize it unless they replace the diamond. That is unacceptable because it is the diamond that was blessed at the ceremony. And It occurred to me that my wedding ring was a true rep
The baby won't sleep, crazed just left for two days work. I'm reading the forums while I wait for little man to settle down and I felt like saying something but not sure what. I love this site. I love reading the forums and often times I write a response and end up not posting.
Most recently I have been reading the forums about first times. I have been wanting to post there but not sure which experience I consider to truly be our first. I think we've been somewhat kinky from the very
I finally have something unexpected and thrilling to share, and it's nothing short of spectacular. One of our gay friend invited me and Mr. A out last month during gay pride weekend. We had dinner and drinks with a large group of people and we happened to sit next to a gay couple visiting from Europe...friends of friends...and I'm not revealing the country for reasons that will become clear. They're both super handsome, although I'm not a fan of orange pants for guys.
Anyhow, we chatted an
"Watch me suck his dick baby" is not a phrase I ever dreamed uttering to my husband just before I wrapped my mouth around a virtual stranger's cock. Not in a ever did I think that. The nerdy girl I grew up as wouldn't fathom sex with another man while her loving spouse watched adoringly from the other couch.
I grew up conservatively and was taught sex was something you had with one other person. I don't mean one at a time, I mean period. You got married and that was it. Body shaming was comm
I've decided to start jotting down my thoughts on my adventures. Mostly for me to look back on, but if it helps or provides insight for others that's great too!
So the adventure started with my sis account created on 6/3. I think the next morning I had about 60 emails that was very flattering! Although most were not what I am looking for, it was an ego boost. Over the next week or so I changed and updated my profile, trying to weed out so many emails.
I replied to a coup
My wife and I have hosted thirty-eight private house parties over nine years. Yesterday's party was the best ever. Twenty-two people were in attendance. Everybody had an opportunity to play. Three people stayed overnight with us. The food was great and the conversation was great. And every time my wife and I start thinking that we have experienced everything, we are proved wrong by having new and amazing experiences.
JoAnn has never been shy and is typically the first to lead somebody up th
This is an update or our previous blog entry where I mentioned that Bill and my wife Lisa were planning another play session in a few weeks. I was not sure if it was going to be a threesome including me or just the two of them playing alone.
I am happy to say it happened two weeks ago and was a playdate for my wife and Bill alone, which is what I had hoped for. Even though he and my wife had played alone with each other a lot, that had been in the mid 80s. We had also had couple swaps with B
A couple of years ago, me and my husband started to have problems in our sex-life. Sometimes we just did it because we had to do it. We reached to a point where we set a date on when we were going to have sex with each other. The years passed and both me and my husband came close to cheat and claim for divorce. As we were arguing many thoughts and ideas came out from our moths. Things like “I wanna have sex with you and another man” or “I wanna try watching you have sex with another woman”. Thin
The last two weeks have been great fun for my wife and me. First of all, we have been guests at the mid-Florida home of the wonderful people we first met almost a year ago at their West Virginia home. They have developed an amazing network of lifestyle friends and we were introduced to and had opportunities to play with many of them. We spent a few days and nights at the clothing-optional resorts called Caliente and Paradise and met more people. Our supply of little business cards having our pic
How do you deal with babysitting, swinging, and family dinner all in the same day? Lots of quick thinking and makeup.
Chinese New Year fell on 2/8 this year, but we always have our family dinner the week after to avoid the crowds, so that meant dinner with my parents, my sister's family, and my brother's family on the night of 2/14. When Mr. A and I decided to celebrate Valentine's Day on 2/13, I agreed to babysit my sister's two kids on 2/14 during the day so my sister and her husband coul
I have alluded to the topic of my brother in other blog posts and have been meaning to write a post about him. As it turned out, a cousin of mine is doing a paper that fit right in with my family's situation. My mom graciously agreed to be interviewed then I was asked for my input. The following is just a silver of what I wanted to write about my brother but it will have to do.
I have an older brother who is three years my senior. To be honest, I don’t think about him all that often beca
We have been playing with our best friend Bill since the mid 1980s, so having a threesome with was not unusual. What was unusual was we went over to his house instead of him coming to our house.
We have a king size bed that is very nice for playing, but over the last 10 years my wife has started to have hip problems that have limited the positions she is comfortable with. That's especially true of intercourse itself which is very frustrating, especially in mmf threesomes where my friend and I
My wife and I are spending a weekend at a West Virginia resort hotel. I'm up earlier than everybody else. Preliminary report: this hotel has declined quite a bit since the time I was first a guest about twenty years ago. But swingers are an indefatigable bunch and seem to look past all of that and simply dive right into fun. I've give a more detailed report after we arrive back home.
I had emailed our friend Bill that our furnace had gone out this evening.
His response was: It's suppose to go down to about 30 degrees. If it gets too cold for you, use your key and come on over. The couch is all yours, Lisa can crawl in bed with me!
He was joking, but we have played with him for about 30 years. Recently he has gone through a couple of bad years. It is nice to see the Bill we knew years ago reemerging and showing the interests he had years ago.
While lying in bed the other night, i started massaging my wife while we chatted over our day. She has always loved massages but its been a while since i gave her one. I started to noticed that she was getting Horny ,she started moaning and flinching,Of course i continued. Out of nowhere she tells me ,"wouldn't be nice if i got a massage while you watched ?" Weve been talking about having our first threesome for quite some time now. So ofcourse i said ,that would be soo hot to see you get a mass
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