I've never really been the kind of gal to go on dates. I meet guys at parties, at work, at school...and over a long period of being friends...then being friends who kiss...then being friends who spend the night...suddenly we just wake up one day and decide we're "together."
In college I had a couple of "dates" that were very awkward, boring, long, offensive...etc. And just decided it wasn't my thing.
For this whole experiment to work though...I couldn't avoid the first dates. Yes yes, I
Tech's only sister had a baby today. Due to medical problems, it will likely be the only one she has. A first experience for him being there since his children are all step children.
The thing that totally sucks about this is no one got to go with him. Long story about work and misunderstanding the doctor on when she was being induced. I'm now anxiously awaiting pictures to arrive via the technology I love.
He was afraid to hold mine and Gator's second grandchild when he was first born. B
Getting Started pt 9c - the first meeting, Another Woman
Ahh Yes, the Unicorns..
Those of us with experience in the lifestyle refer to single women within the lifestyle as just that Unicorns, often talked about, but seldom seen
This will be possibly the shortest entry in the series for one reason, After 13 years of being involved in the lifestyle, we have YET to find one.
So, given the fact that, I can not speak from experience, the best course of action I can give in this instance i
Now then, the bags packed, she is dressed to kill and you are ready to go, the just in case reservations have been made.. Anything else you need to deal with to go away for the evening has been taken care of, such as a sitter scheduled, days ahead.
You head out the door, and the nerves have grown the butterflies into flying saucers. It might be a good idea to both get on the same page as to what happens If.. If things are ready to go to the next level, or If they aren’t. Make it clear that bo
Getting Started pt 9b - the first meeting, Another Man
Ok, lets suppose you have decided to try something a bit different.. Definitely EASIER.
Lets suppose, you have decided to satisfy her fantasy, of adding another guy, to your bedroom fun.
After pouring thru the thousands of single man profiles, getting dozens of emails from all sorts of individuals, you settle on one. You talked via IM and he seems like a great choice, spoke on the phone and again, seems like he is just right. After
So you meet these people, and things go fairly well.. They are as personable in person as they were during the other conversations online and on the phone.
Guys, you need to be paying attention to your wife/girlfriend.. Is she talking, or quiet.. Remember she is still just as nervous as you are.. Keep the conversation going, and make sure to involve her. Do Not allow her to retreat into a shell..
Girls, here is a different key to watch for, Is your Guy, acting like an idiot.. Being loud?
Getting started: pt 9a - The First Meet - Another Couple
Ok, we have covered all the possible things that can happen leading up to heading out the door. The date is set, the sitter is set to be at your place in plenty of time for you to leave to make your “Date”
And then as the morning turns to afternoon, the nerves kick into high gear.. By 3 o clock the butterflies are the size of Goodyear blimps..
Now, a note to my favorite readers, you lovely ladies.. Here is the tip for how to p
yesterday was abso-bloomin-lutely awesome.
i am now officially part of the community. i have now enjoyed full swap fun. i have now officially confirmed my previous 'theory' that I would enjoy tasting the the nether regions of another girl. i have now made two wonderful new friends!
i am now exhausted!
really though, i'm most excited about the people! it is soooo nice to have met a couple of wonderful fun people, who i really have a great time with, and feel totally comfortable whe
i feel like i've met all these new people...and then i'm immediately letting them down by not being available all the time! it sometimes takes me a few days to answer emails, and i'm not always at my desk when people IM me, and this weekend I need to just take a total break to get stuff done. so, i apologize. i hope no one thinks i'm just being a bitch and ignoring them!
this week i've been dealing with the migraine thing, so i'm just really behind on work. tonight i had a WONDERFUL massag
I've been reading and lurking at this site for such a long time now..about a year. Between that and a lot of the couples and men we've spoken to over the months, I've made some observations. Now I could be wrong, and maybe I'm seeing what I want to see...but here goes anyway.
*The majority of men who enjoy going down on a women also enjoy seeing her orgasm. These guys seem to be totally ok with a girl being pleased. That's not always the case..there are some who don't even know what a clitor
actually...i've had a headache for 25 days now.
i got a mild concussion at the beginning of the month, and the headache never went away. ct scan came up fine, so no worries, just have to live through it. For the most part, it's just been a mild headache, but the past few days have nearly reached migraine level.
today i even had to take some (prescribed) vicodin at work, which led to me napping under my desk for an hour,
i am soooooo hoping this doesn't ruin my plans for monday. i'd
Well we've had what I would call our first swinging experience. I say it's the first one only because the play date we had last year was really just girl/girl play and same room sex, and I cut the evening short because my man was not enjoying himself at all...
But this last weekend was amazing. And I want more! All thoughts of potential jealousy are now diminished, if not gone completely. Seeing my man going down on another women was such a turn on. Hearing her moan with pleasure made me smi
Ok, i like photos of women's boobs as much as the next guy (oh, wait, actually not, lol...but they are very appealing!) Boobs are great. front boobs...side boobs....boobs in push up bras...boobs being kissed....boobs on the beach...boobs boobs boobs.
i get it, they're very stimulating. ;-)
but why are most couples' profiles so focused on boobs? 95% of all the couple's photos I've seen are of just the female....and about 80% of those are just of the boobs.
so here's a plea...bring o
i am seriously lacking in the sexy-things-to-wear department.
i used to have lots of cute things! but then i got started on my masters degree, and started a new side business...all while working full time. oh, and i kind of wrote a book in there somewhere. soooooooooo....i ate fast food for two years and stayed in front of the computer all day....resulting in weight gain of alarming proportions. yuck.
so all my cute things went to good will or the trash. *sigh*
fast forward to a
There I was, a girl of 27, once bi-curious, but now just bi-comfortable after the first 10 or so encounters with other femals did not turn out as anything special
Well, at least that is what I believed to be until past friday!
C is known as a very energic, warmhearted and passionate girl on a local ad site.
This weekend she announced her first visit to my prefered club.
I meet her and her male partner for the evening in the dinner area, and talked for a bit with them and another couple
yay, last night was perfect!
i don't want to get into too much of a habit of posting details of nights out, but since it was a first for me, i think it warrants a little something
of course, last night was a no-play date, just a meet and greet with one of the first couples i'd started talking to. they were GREAT! we went to dinner, and when the restaurant closed we went to a bar. and when the bar closed, we still weren't done talking, but it was nearly 2!
by this time i felt extreme
Take a wife completely against the concept of swinging and a husband who hadn't really considered it. Add years together with no intentional seed planting, and suddenly out of the blue it becomes possible. A month later, and we're just about to go. I need to sell tickets for this ride!
This blog might be written to be either the husband or the wife in our couple. We'll start each post by indicating who's writing (in this case husband).
My wife and I have been together many years. Prior to
So tonight will be my first "meet up" with a local couple. It's a no-expectations night, just dinner and conversation, but I'm excited. Probably best if I don't get nekked, since I still look funny from the spray-tan fiasco. LOL. (So far my armpits, under my breasts, the sides of my thighs, and my toenails (eww) are still tanned...but otherwise I'm back to looking Irish. Sexy Sexy!)
I'm not sure just how this will go...I guess like any other time I meet new people. I'm a self confident
I have to admit. The allure of spray tanning sounded great. 60 seconds? yes please. nice tan? yes please! no possibility of skin cancer or early aging? Oh baby bring it on!!!
i've got a friends wedding coming up soon, for which I'll be the maid of honor...and i want to look like a bronze goddess (ok, really i just don't want to blind people...i'll settle for "beige"). I've used tanning beds before, but only in short stints...since I'm a tad afraid of the risks. I love it though...best 1
I'm trying as much as possible to enjoy this time when i'm getting a lot of attention. I do love attention...and I'm trying to savor it rather than get overwhelmed. I'm also trying to be a bit selective. Anyway.
So I chatted with a couple last night who sounded great! They are local, professionals, and attractive. I chatted with them both by im, but via separate conversations. Evidently they have a F/B relationship and don't see each other too often.
I chatted with him first. He see
i just got the inbox down from 21 to 7...but now that i've had a bottle of champagne i think i'll quit. (don't worry, i don't drink that often, i just really wanted some bubbly tonight! and i sober quickly...which can be a pest...but is also the reason why i'm still typing legibly.)
it's a little overwhelming to have so many couples contact you...so many nice people that i want to meet! with 2 careers and an existing social life, i'm not entirely sure how to make it work, but i'm giving it
haha, ok kidding. i'm not quite that impatient...but I would like for my last sexual encounter to no longer be the one that happened last sunday.
it was bad. i mean....he was bad. *sigh* and to make it worse, he kept saying my name over and over and over (about 100 times...it's the only thing he said) in a weird creepy raspy whisper straight out of a horror movie. it made me afraid of myself. anyway....
lets just say I was less than satisfied a week ago. and 4 days ago, i decided to j
