My life is currently not on the uphill.
It was really bad to see how this influenced my libido in the past week.
There was just no interrest in playing with myself let alone searching for someone else.
Last Friday/Saturday must have been the worst.
I went to a music festival with Mister M.
I wasn't in the mood for searching a playpartner and Mister M is not into robbing any craddles. (There were hardly any people over 20 years old - just drunken and stoned teens)
In the end I wasn't even
Yesterday, at 5:01 p.m., California became the second state to legalize gay marriage. Way to go California!
Gay marriage is something I've really never understood the controversy about. What the hell is wrong with people of the same sex getting married? What does a gay couple getting married take away from me or you? Not a damn thing. To me it's always been something that shouldn't have to be legalized...it should have always been and be a right of every citizen of this country no matter
Well, we have been swinging since nov,2007 and have only been with one person. We were talking the other night, about our Rules:)
and apparently do not agree on some things. woo hoo, well anyway. I have a fantasy where I am with another female, (that is why we got into swinging, lol) well, I asked him what about the first time i am with a female it is just me and her, Oh no, that did not go well at all. His first response was(u are trying to leave me out)
come on what part of this is wrong. I
You are looking at the ultimate in flexibility. Black Magic is the evolution of the Tripod design, but takes a radically different approach. Black Magic's unique frame uses a series of joints to deliver unparalleled positioning capabilities.
That's how the page for the Black Magic XL sex machine starts out on Orgasm Alley. It's no lie, either. This thing is like a robot contortionist with a penis. My wife and I got ours a few months back, and we've had a chance to put it through its paces,
PMS = Putting up with Moron's Shit!
I'm having a week. Evidently the increased traffic thanks to all my efforts and SwingTown too... has brought out the morons and crazies and they are driving me batty.
Add to that the braces went on today, and just forgive me if I'm a bit snarky this week. In some cases I'm fairly sure it's warranted in others, maybe not so much.
I've been playing the bang your head on the keyboard game a lot this week.
This morning was one of those days that I really could have kicked myself...hell, I cussed at myself for about an hour.
I was sitting around drinking my morning coffee, in a pair of Ted's boxers and a t-shirt...no shower, no make-up, hair had not even been brushed...I looked horrible.
There was a knock on the door so I went to answer it, basically pissed because I was being disturbed from my first peaceful, quiet morning in over a week.
I opened the door and wanted to DIE...standi
This past weekend marked our first anniversary as swingers and we celebrated in style at our favorite house party. WOW!!! what a fantastic party!! The house was full of sexy folks, there was a sybian in one of the rooms and I got to work the controls for a little while (up close and personal!!). We talked with friends we've known for most of the year and met some other folks for the first time. The highlight of the party for us was when the host joined us for some MFM action. I found it very ero
My husband and I have been married for 10 years now, and more in love each day. For the last 2 1/2 years we have bounced around the idea of swinging, we have been to a swingers off premise party on New years eve and had a blast. So many sexy couples and singles.
But life happened and we had to take a break for a little while, but i am excited that we are back in action. We have only had one minor experience with a male, and that was hot, soft swap of course, ok for now. We are looking forward
We are getting ready to start our big summer! Kids are spending the summer with the grandparents, and we are kicking it off by a trip to Nashville and the world famous Menages. We are going on a Thursday, so I'm skeptical as to how many folks will be out, but since this our first visit to a "club" club, we are excited nonetheless. We are also going to try to hook up with some folks when we can. The big thing is I have a horny wife who wants to play with lots of girls and boys. Whatever will
This is not meant to be a complete guide to having a house party. But having recently hosted one at our own home and having been a guest at another couple's home, we thought we would assemble a few tips we hope will be helpful for those who are contemplating having a party of their own.
If you do not already have one, buy a massage table.
Send invitations saying where, when, general nature of the event, and include a list of who has been invited. Describe party etiquette and expected b
Well as things have a way of doing sometimes the party didn't turn out exactly as planned. The wife of the other couple wasn't feeling well so they decided to stay home. The two other single men got side-tracked and didn't make it either.
However, that did NOT take away from the fun we had
We sat naked out by the pool drinking and talking, played around in the pool for a bit...talked some more, made our way inside and put on a cam show for a single female friend of our play buddy...th
Unlike some of our esteemed members, I'm just not big on fighting with the vanillas. But, out of duty I headed over to the CBS boards yesterday and posted a few posts to make my presence (and mainly the presence of the Swingers Board) known. An hour over there and maybe 10 posts was enough for me.... but not for Pet.
He made his way over there this morning and has been having a grand ole' time all day playing over there. And since he loves me he makes sure to promote the board, saving me f
Being in a rather horny mood Ted and I contacted our regular single male play buddy this past week to see what he was up to this weekend.
He's free so we're headed to his house in a few hours for some playing...during conversation with him we told him if there was anyone else he could think of to invite, go for it...which he told us the same thing so...what started out as a threesome has now turned into a seven-some...COOL!
Three single men and two couples, all of who have played togethe
In my opinion, something that is putting a damper on the Lifestyle for many is that it's pretty much a playground that anyone with a computer can, to an extent, play on. The simple fact of the matter is that thanks to the Internet, anyone can play 'Swinger'...and they do! One thing that is often suggested is that swinging is more 'mainstream' today - less underground. At the risk of being accused of nit-picking, I would argue that the idea of swinging is much more accepted and prevelant as a s
It seems like sometimes I just know that we are going to have a great time if we go to the club that night. Yesterday was one of those days. After being sick for the last couple of weeks I was finally feeling better. So I woke up Saturday morning wanting to get out and do something. We started looking online. We looked a social in B'ham that we haven't been to yet but as it was already about noon and we didn't get a response back within an hour we decided we'd just head to Menages again.
May 31, 2008
It was Saturday evening.
The week had been a full week of work. Busy coordinating new operations and managing people. Still very satisfying and by the time quitting time came around was tired but quite happy with the results.
The lady I have been seeing got to see her lawyer and got things rolling again.
She and her husband separated bout a year ago. Each got a lawyer, then decided to live together and not proceed.
They both are starting the process again.
My situation witho
Every time I hear that phrase an image comes to mind and that damn song starts playing in my head...you know, that song from the SNL skit (also the movie 'A Night at the Roxbury' ) with Chris Kattan and Will Ferrell in the bar bouncing their heads to...Haddaway-What is Love...I hear "What is love" and my head starts bouncing...
Anyway...What is love? Many splendid different things? I believe so. This is one of my many splendid different things.
Ice cream...yes, ice cream. Ted and I w
Hello,
I am not sure how to do this, so I will just type and put my feelings and thoughts out there.
It is more for myself than any recognition from anyone.
I am a male, 48, 5'11", 195 lbs.
So much for the physical aspects of myself.
I really don't know where to start so I might start at the end.
Where I am now.
Or Start at the beginning.
I think I will just start at the middle and work towards both ends.
The middle starts at the age of 23 when I decided right out of college to get mar
In theory a swing club could be the best place to hunt down a future boyfriend.
In one go you could find out if you are sexually compatible. See if you like the same things, if cocks and tits are bit enough and if the other person is willing to pleasure you the right way ... love can come later! (It workd for hundreds of years, that you married first and perhaps fell in love later ... and if love does not happen, you still have great sex)
But well, just in theory.. in reality swing clubs are
Once a couple has decided to include others in their sexual exploration, the next question that comes up is how to meet others of like mind. Although the choice of methods has pretty much settled into a certain few, new methods are totally possible with the passage of time and advances in technology, societal attitude etc.
We started our Lifestyle journey as a couple when there was no internet... 'swing' ads were fairly 'shoot an arrow in the air' things in underground papers that pretty much
A fear of rejection is probably one of the most common fears that people have, some to a larger degree than others. It applies and can handicap participation in just about any endeavor requiring interaction with other people - careers, dating, relationships and on and on. There is quite a bit of psychology behind the fear of rejection..but what's important is one's ability (or inability) to deal with it. That holds doubly true if you actually plan on doing something with others in the Lifestyl
I want to be the friend Kitten needs this weekend. I'll do all that I can to make it so. But, what can you do for someone you love who feels she is finally able to go through her mom's things so that the house can be sold? I have no words to give her....just my presense and willingness to work beside her.
Mother's Day was a rough day for her. The first she has been without her mother. Yet, I feel it won't compare to this weekend at all. One of the biggest things she'll face it what to do wit
This happens to us too often. We have an early flight home so we don't feel we can stay out all night on our last night but that always seems to be the night we have the most fun on our trips and end up feeling we are dragging ourselves away from the fun at the end of the night.
After a rough middle of our trip with me getting sick (and I am still... I think my head is going to pop at any moment). We went out for dinner Saturday night and had a couple of drinks and then went back to the hot
