This trip isn't going quite as well as we'd hoped. The party is fun and the people are nice so what went wrong? I got sick, that's what went wrong. After a great start on Wednesday night meeting a few early arrivers and then spending Thursday by the pool and enjoying the party Thursday night with everyone. I woke up Friday feeling like crap. Not the "I drank too much" crap but the "my sinuses are trying to kill me" crap. Sore throat, itching/watery eyes, runny nose... that kind of crap. Not
Once you and your partner have decided to invite others into your sex life, you have to define your boundries. There are some couples in the lifestyle who claim that for them "everything goes" or "we love it all"..but we personally shy away from them, because we have found that they tend to be prone to 'pushing' other's boundries and are famous for the question, "How do you know you don't like it if you have never tried it?" While that logic does apply to some endeavors, it has very few sexual a
Probably the first issue that springs to my mind regarding a couple's decision to explore the Lifestyle is communication.
Before you can interact with others in the lifesyle, open and honest communication between yourself and your signifcant other is crucial. This further expands to include communicating with others. Few things piss off lifestyle couples more than meeting a couple who are not both on the same sheet of music!
Example: We met a couple once in which the wife was portrayed
A lot of the topics I post to in the forums I find are thought provoking, often with easy to misinterpret responses that would better be served with detailed answers... but I suspect that many readers prefer forum posts to be shorter and therefore a quicker read. Unfortunatly, that can (and often does) result in as many questions on one's view on a subject than answers to the original post! So, in an attempt to provide a more detailed account of my views, I've decided that blogging here might b
Well most of you noticed I was around a heck of a lot more the last couple months, the reason was, I was out of work! I showed up for work at the gym and got " Rich, we need to talk". Now he liked to fake fire people all the time, I had not been written up or anything so I went in and he says as he pulls out the P2"its just not working out" He had me sign the paper and I figured at most he would let me get out of the parking lot and call and say " just kidding" but nope that didn't happen.
We
So today is the official first day of the (clothing optional) event which lasts through the weekend.
It's pretty laid back here in Orlando, and the "balls" hit the pool at 12 noon today. We've been here two days, and we were slightly disappointed the first night that an attractive couple we met wasn't staying through the weekend as that was a good clue that they weren't in the lifestyle.
Yesterday, we did the vanilla thing and went to universal studios because we wanted to and it was a
Last year I really had the feeling to be out of control about my swinging so I started writing down my statistics this year.
This thread had me go back and count
Out of 13 visits there were 5 without any play. The other 8 times I got to play with a total of 13 men. (With 8 of those actual penetration happened, with 4 of those more then once)
The numbers kind of surprise me as I had the feeling that I don't get to play just every other time. I guess I just reme
I Just got back from a week at a great oceanfront condo on Maui. There is a great local bar about a 5 minute walk from the condo.
It is a mexican cantina with an incredible selection of tequillas. It has basic border mexican fast food. Those who live along the border know what I mean.
On my last night there, I met this young early 30s couple. This was thier first time on Hawaii. I talked with them for a while, we hit it off pretty well.
They had spent most of the day hanging
I know I haven't posted about the condoms regularly. I believe the last one was inspirion, which was overly secure if you were into a penis turnicate.
However, this time we tried out Elexa, Ultra Sensitive by Trogan. This condom touts that it has a premium lubricant with low odor latex. Not that I was sniffing the condom, but I found that it had the same smell any other condom did.
Although I will mention that the results of the condom testing were much more positive than the prior testin
Over the last year or so of our adventures into the lifestyle I have kept a blog on 360 of thoughts and encounters I thought others might enjoy. While 360 is a suitable forum for my postings I'm always running the risk that they might be deleted or my account suspended because of the adult nature of the posts. There is also the draw of the undesirables which I'll probably rant about at another time, lol.
Until then, my last post there and first post here:
I have realized in the hotwife
I don't think so.
Ted and I like porn...yeah, maybe strange for swingers to really like porn but we do.
Ted gifted me with a surround sound system at Christmas for our bedroom. The big screen TV is in our bedroom and I thought it would be cool to have surround sound. The system he gave me had a five disc DVD player in it...I love it!
Well, this past week it blew up. Ted is home this weekend and I told him something was wrong with the system. Being the electronic guru he is, he inves
Well it is time for our monthly update, even if it is a few weeks late. Things have been going well for us. With the improved weather we have been getting out more and being more active on top of what we are doing in the gym. We've started doing day hikes on our weekends off. Had a great time going to Cloudland Canyon state park a few weeks ago and hiking. That is something that a year ago we wouldn't have even dreamed of doing. I have to say I am very proud of my wife. She has gone down 34 lbs.
... GPS powered dicks!!!!
I'm really tired of guys fucking my legs because they can't find my pussy
Out of 4 guys tonight only one found the right entrance
And yes, I'm writing this drunk, why do you ask?!?
As someone who has been a counsellor for many years, I am always somewhat surprised by the number of men who begin seeking advice on how they "can get their wife (or SO or girlfriend) to relax and enjoy the swinging experience." More often than not they are trying to get their partner involved in a fmf relationship to fufill their own personal fantasy.
However for all you guys who find yourself longing for 100% participation remember, a true swinging relationship is about mutual decisions an
Well Amy got the all clear and we are back at it. We celebrated with a nice little MFM yesterday, and it was great. Amy hasn't grinned that much in a while. Thanks to everyone who shared their concerns. We are ready for summer now!
This weekend will go down with three of the worst play-dates I ever had!
1) Friday
I meet up with Miss S and two of her friends. One guy is the one she currently got the hots for and the other was along to get hooked up with me.
I just came from work, and was rather tired, and just in for a drink or two. Just as I was about to leave, Miss S announces that she will go down to the playrooms now, and grabs my hand to come along.
Her friend starts to massage my neck, so I’ don’t protest much
JoAnn says to me, "we're going to a movie tonight. Lara Spencer says it's about swingers." Well, in case you might have heard the same, it's not. One of the plot devices is a "sex club". Characters from the movie carry cell phones that have coded numbers in their contact lists. You pick a code number, call, name a place, nominally an exclusive kind of five-star hotel, and a beautiful, young, shapely blond shows up and has sex with you. If this is what Lara Spencer perceives as swinging, sh
On a regional based plattform like SLS I just got a message from a guy, telling me to hop in the bus, so we can see each other this night.
Nothing bad per se ... but the guy has two pictures in his profile showing off his tattoos and a part of his face.
Together with his name and his height this makes him look like my boss .......
(Never mind that this week my boss made more then one remark about going to the "Sauna Club" - as vanillas over here call swinger clubs - and him needing some s
Yes, it's getting around now that Bama0468 is my brother. It's true. He was active on here back when the forums first started and has recently returned.
NO. We have never played together, but his wife was my first girl/girl (and vice versa).
We are close but we aren't THAT close!
I just posted this to the forums in general, but there was a little more I wanted to say (not quite as publicly).
Most know that about 2 years ago I started selling real estate for much the same reason that I created this site (in the format that it exists now) to help people. It wasn't about the money by any means. The first year it went pretty well. I had a good year by really any standards for a first year salesperson, especially considering all that I had going on (continuing to
Ok, so every now and then I hear or read an interesting word. I won't do this everyday, but will today.
And today's word is..........:drumroll:..
PORNACRACY
Ruled by harlots.
Used to describe the vatican and pope's offices which at one time in Christian history, the wealthy aristocratic women actually controlled who became pope, and could choose another at their whim.
If it's not too taboo, I'll add a religion post.... but I want to be sure that everyone would lo
