Okay...we're going to the M&G/house party tonight. We know a couple of the single men and couples that will be there, all great people to hang out with. One problem....
Just found out that the annoying asshole will be there What the hell??? We can't get away from this guy.
Should prove to be an interesting night...tune in tomorrow for an up-date.
As I mentioned earlier, while Amy was somewhat reserved of this whole lifestyle thing in the beginning, she has now decided that we will be doing this for "a while." Woohoo for us. But there is one thing I have noticed. In all of our experiences up to this point, we have not done the same thing twice. That is good, I guess. I think we have adopted the attitude that we will try everything once, figure out what we liked, then do those things again. I will elaborate more later. Just needed t
Haven't posted here in a while...basically because this particular blog is used for swinger/Ted & I stuff.
Ted's been gone off working for the past two weeks, so that kind of puts a damper in the he and I stuff and the swinger stuff.
But, he's on his way home ( should be here in about four hours) and we were invited to a private Meet & Greet/house party tomorrow night...Cool!
This will be the first time that we've been to this particular M&G/party...we know the host and
Today was the first day in over week that I really felt like doing anything other than laying on the couch and watching tv. I've really gotten caught up on my tivo and movie watching.
Today, I managed to catch upon email, put out the Swingers Board newsletter and finally finish the list of users that need to be rebuilt.
We are still working out small glitches throughout the site from the make-over a few months ago. Sometimes you don't notice things right away or until someone else points
I guess at this time of year many folks tend to be introspective and I'm no exception.
We've been swinging for about 6 months and mostly experienced house parties along with a few friendly two-couple get-togethers.
We began with an agreement that this was an experiment for us - after a fair trial period, we'd evaluate our preferences and make a decision to continue or not. We agreed to not hold ourselves or each other accountable for any negative feelings that may arise because of our acti
Well, I have told Amy's NYE story, now I must tell mine. I had the wonderful opportunity to play for hours with what I would describe as the sexiest image you could imagine of a witch. First, she really is a witch (I think that is so cool). Second, she had a kick-ass body (5'9", 130lbs, curved just perfectly, almost waist-length black hair, pale white skin and piercing brown eyes). Third, she likes her sex rough. Teeth-marks and bruises rough. Hand-prints on her ass that last a week rough.
A beautiful and delicious thing it is when a woman reaches her thirties and starts toward that sexual peak. But come on! How many bodily fluids can one man lose?
Now before I start today, don't get me wrong. Whining, I'm not. But little did I know what kind of switch was flipped NYE. Well, I'm beginning to see a pattern here, and I very well may not survive it. So here's the story:
Since our NYE rendevouz, Amy has been talking to her new boy-toy just about everyday. Cool. They clic
As is the case with many swinging couples, we started out wanting to do everything together. We had read that this was just a better way to go about things. The couple that swings together stays together
But, as our talking evolved it started to become clear that our motivations in swinging were quite different. In fact, the whole topic stated with my admission that I wanted something that Kermit couldn't provide - breasts (among other things). Kermit also wanted some things that I just wasn
Overall, I'm feeling better. Day 3 was by far the worst on the swelling and pain. We are now on Day 5. I'm still rather swollen and it's still too uncomfortable for me to talk any more than I have to. This is actually the best thing about Paul having to work all weekend. When someone is here it makes me want to talk more. When noone is here, talking is kinda pointless so it makes it a lot easier not to. I'm still not eating anything that requires any sort of chewing. I gave has another try ye
I have a theory:
A few years ago, when the Spanish armada was beginning to cruise the new world, there was a particular swingle male with an SLS screen name "Pounce de lay one on ya". Well, ole Pounce had been in the boat for a little too long - knot holes in the ships planking were starting to look sexually inviting and an exciting change from Rosy Palmer.
Pounce's deliriously homophobic navigator accidentally bumped the ship into some dirt and proudly declared success (under budget AND a
Saw the 'Bread Man' again yesterday while I was out. We did our usual... hugs and polite conversation.
During the conversation he told me he would like to get together with Ted and I to see how things progressed (he hasn't met Ted yet).. So, I asked him if he was sure that this was something that he was interested in pursing. His feelings were that he was very comfortable around me and he couldn't imagine not being comfortable around Ted but, he still wasn't sure about the sex part but d
Amy & I decided a while back that we would be a same-room couple. We have no problems with full swap, but we figured that the best way to be sure we could handle things was to be there with each other for a while. We really didn't have any ambition to play separately since we got in this to have fun as a couple. Amy has also made no bones about the fact that she is in this mainly for the chicas. Well, that shit changed practically the moment we hit the door at Spa City.
We had chatte
Amy's birthday last year marked the first time we have played with another couple. We have had MFMs and FFms before, with much enjoyment, but we were ready to move ahead. That was September 07. Well, things had lagged since then. We moved, and with the move comes the need to start networking all over again.
Ugh! I hate the swinger personals websites! I mean, they do serve their purpose, but patience is not a virtue of mine. I'll take the time to send out a batch of emails to couple
Well. we've never done the blog thing before, but at the rate we've been going here lately, why the hell not.
Anywho, the reason for me doing this blog is to document our path from newbies to seasoned veterans in the lifestyle. It is really more of an exercise in processing all that has happened, but we hope it is also entertaining too. If you happen to read here, feel free to join in the conversation.
Enough explanations. I will be posting on the wild-ass New Year's Eve
I figure my swinging blog should begin with a history of my swinging life.
It all started in August 2003 (or was it June... I can't remember). I went away on a retreat. I was sharing a room with three gals. We were together for 12 days. The goal of the retreat was to look within yourself, learning something about your life and your direction and what is really important. All this introspection going on and I couldn't seem to convince myself that the feelings I was having for one of my roommat
