Few people pay attention to this blogs area but it makes me feel good to put my feelings into words.
Looking back upon nearly eight years of swing lifestyle, my wife and I had many "not going to happen" things that have happened and very likely will continue. Fallen to the wayside are things like no-glove-no-love, same-room sex only, neither of us plays alone, never on the first date, and no single males. One not-gonna-happen fell away just yesterday evening. I was thrilled and delighted
In UK most of my vanilla girl friends have/are reading the triology 50 Shades of Grey. It seems that their men folk seem to be kept away from the books and if any vanilla husband asks about reading one he gets brushed aside with comments like "It's a woman's book you won't like it!"
What these stories seem to drive is the young woman's experience in the hands of an older experienced lover who takes her from simple missionary sex into the wonderful world of real hot horny sexual fucking and fu
We are not new to this lifestyle and have had fun with it.
We got into our first fight a few weeks ago because the rules that we sat down had been broken. One of our rules were that we never play with single people. A few weeks ago he ended up getting an email from a single women and felt like he should be able to play with someone he really wants. I told him that I did not want singles. My reasons stem from other singles being trouble makers.
He wanted to fight about thi
My friday night (first we have to go a bit backwards)
One night i receive an email in response to an ad that i had posted on a particular website with "List" in the name (hahaha). Ive had so many bad experiences on this site that i have stayed away however This email was written differently though. First off the female half was writing the email, usually the males are the ones that respond and start the "Screening process"
She informed me that her and her husband would be there in two week
Here begins the chronicle of our travel vacation in New England. We left home on early morning Monday. Our plan was to allow ourselves two days to make what Google Maps had predicted to be ten hours of driving time. We seldom spend long periods in an automobile typically stopping at every antiques dealer along a twisted, curvaceous route. Extra bonus, a SwingLifeStyle couple had answered our Hot Date posting just days before we took off. They are situated right along the route we had planne
Last weekend was the Sweet and Flintstone annual family camping trip. A few other friends joined us, and helped make it a most memorable weekend. Mr. Sweet actually took the day off on Friday (gasp!), so I had extra help loading up the car and setting up camp. Friday was also Boy’s birthday (he turned thirteen), and we all enjoyed the S’mores cake I made for the occasion that evening.
I also enjoyed a lovely walk around the lake with my twin’s hubby Friday evening. It was so peaceful
Alas, my laptop is very sick and requires major surgery. It started with a treatable illness (a new power source was needed), so I took it to one of my personal geek squad members. The initial procedure was successful, but a larger problem was discovered. Power was getting to the machine, but it was not starting up. Apparently, the connection between the power switch and the motherboard is a known issue with Dells. A new motherboard was ordered, but I do not have a date for the surgery yet
I always wondered why when restrictions on websites for posting pictures that involve nudity why it's ok to show tits and not male genitalia? Another double standard? Even here when posting pics guys geet too oogle over tits easily. Women have to use their imagination. Strip clubs even. While alot of them don't technically allow full nudity. Pretty much on the women you see it all but a tiny bit of cloth to cover the actual labia. Why aren't breasts seen as just as much a sexual body part as the
Given that we've basically been on a break from swinging for the last 2 years and have hit up our "home" club maybe once every 6 months during that time, we jumped back in with a bang the last few weeks. For the month of June we hit a different party every Saturday night and it was exhausting! LOL. Yes, we had fun, but none of them felt quite "right". Last night we finally made it back to our "home" club and they moved back to their "home". The hotel that our favorite social was in closed last
So, last week as we were getting ready to go to a new-to-us social for the first time and I was trying to figure out what I was going to wear, I realized I had nothing to wear. How many times have we gone through this? Oh, at least 50% of the times we've gone to a party or club (AT LEAST!). You'd think I'd learn by now, but if I have, I've forgotten. After going through it last weekend, I KNEW I had nothing to wear this weekend for the "Playboy lingerie" themed party. And yet, I waited till toni
I've actually long tried to keep this site and our actual swinging separate. I've found too many times that people judge us based on the fact that I own a swinger site (or wrote a book on swinging). Until the book came out, it wasn't something that we really promoted much at all. Our primary club has always tried to help me promote this site (and the book) as much as they can (and I help them as much as I can in return). But, I always find myself shrinking back when an announcement is made at
It seems like no matter what we cannot understand nor agree on the subject of swinging. There are some of the situations we can agree on and alot we can't. There is a part of me that is perfect for swinging but there is the part of me (the married part) that can't handle it. There are stipulations that have been put in place by my husband for swinging that I probably just can't handle. So I guess I am finally just giving in to his "let's just drop the whole thing" mantra. I definitely have the h
We realized the other day that my bullet had a crack in it. It still worked but whenever that crack hit me just wrong, it didn't feel so good. So, we headed to the local shop to pick up a new one. They have the bare bones basic bullet but it's just in like a baggy and it kinda skeezes me out. So I went for the next level up. The last bullet I had had a nice little slider bar to change the speed, and it seemed like it had an endless # of speeds. This new one has a button and only 2 speeds. First
We have been exploring the lifestyle for about 6 months now. we have been pretty active. we have tried some house parties, a couple of gang bangs and some couple play. our latest was last night after a party we had gone to (very vanilla). however, one of the couples there seemed to be spending a lot of time talking to us. We are in our early 50`s. this couple was a lot younger. the mr was gorgeous. the mrs was cute but a little overweight but very curvy. they were in their late 30`s.
long sto
I just want to scream. The one couple I thought would bring us over the hump and deliver us to the land of honey hasn't called. We spent an evening with them despite my submissive being sick. She and I spent that day shopping despite her being sick and then in the evening, she wanted to cancel our date because she was sick. I would not allow that.
I made her go and we had a great time (I knew we would). I thought we all clicked. There was a moment that his wife and I held hands and it
After test-driving a friend's hood piercing, I determined that it was not the obstacle I thought it would be, and decided to get one of my own (and surprise my hubby). I peppered her with questions about the procedure, where to go, etc. It turns out her piercer had moved on to parts unknown, so I asked a couple more folks for recommendations.
One of my gal pals and I went yesterday. I was hoping for a horizontal piercing, but upon inspection, the piercer recommended a vertical for me. As
I think I may be losing a friend, and it breaks my heart. We were very close once, and at one time we were playmates.
It's a rather long story, but the shorter version of it is that he got almost . . . possessive about me. He seemed to expect playtime when we were at the same event, and would get upset when it didn't happen. After the second incident, I told him if he wanted to remain friends with me, it had to be platonic. He accepted my terms, though things were never quite the same.
Mrs & I went to a Meet & Greet the other night. I'm personally getting a little concerned about these events because they seem to be getting a bit cliquish. But maybe people thought the same about the six of us huddled up at a table together most of the night.
We caught up with some playmates of ours, and introduced them to each other. One couple we had not seen in at least a month of which the female is one of my favorite partners, and the feeling seems to be mutual. As a matter
So we were at a loose end on Saturday night, didn't feel like clubbing it, and headed out to a house party an hour and a half away we'd never been to. Don't know if we'll go back again.
Had to pay $20 at the door. I know, that's how some people do this, but in our core group of friends, it's a party, not a paid event.
PB had to wear a wristband. At a house party.
A series of small rooms (and I mean SMALL) The guest list was huge and I don't know how they'd all fit in there.
A very
For the first time this past weekend, we were in a situation where Mrs was off playing with someone and I wasn't.
I only realized this the day after. Fortunately I wasn't overly concerned (or even a bit concerned) about what was going on.
We'd hoped he and his wife would just us for a foursome. His wife went off with someone else leaving the three of us standing around. I was holding the key to the locker hoping our "party bag". We headed off to get the bag and I said to Mrs "Are you o
Visited Eyz Wide Shut in Tampa recently (sidebar: If you're ever in the area, go there). Took up a room with a partner I've been with before. She's definitely a lot of fun, which is why I was with her again.
But boy, is she a lot of work. Before we first got together months ago she warned me. "I'll only cum once. And it's hard to make me cum." And while she certainly enjoys play, it's a long, long way to the peak.
So while we played that night, she simply wore me out physically. I'm
We found a couple we're 100% certain we want to get together with. We're itching to play with them but distance makes it difficult. We're planning a get together soon though, just a matter of schedules lining up and making reservations somewhere.
Our situation is this. We are both newbie couples when it comes to playing with couples. We're not sure on the reactions everyone is going to have. It's mostly the females who are concerned about their emotions and reactions to how the night
A couple initiated contact recently on SLS (we LOVE it when that happens) and we got to meet them on Thursday. They are each 10 years other than we, but our recent experience with another older couple was quite positive, so we had no apprehensions whatsoever. They are an interesting pair... more into mental stimulation than any other couple we have conversed with. Scheduling hasn't yet worked out for a date, but it's not really much of an issue since anticipation is very much part of the gam
