So while I was in the shower rinsing off the sensitive skin Nair (seriously, the best) in preparation for the visit of new friends this evening, I realized that our last couple-to-couple date was November 25. Holy. We have been to house parties, hotel takeovers, and camp-outs since then, but our last real 4-person date was last fall.
Don't get me wrong, we're not deprived, it's just- how do we do this? A little confused, especially since the hot tub is out of commission (shit). We've alre
Yesterday we met up with two other couples for an early evening romp. After we all seduced ourselves silly we made it into the bedroom. All the ladies got on the bed. All the men on their knees servicing them orally.
At one point our male host says "Okay guys, rotate!" And after a chuckle, we did just that. 15 minutes later I said "Ok fellas, let's finish up at home" and we rotated to our wives for the final round of orgasms.
The sound of three women simultaneously moaning in delight i
Within days of our initiation to the Lifestyle, I created a profile on a couple of the swinger sites, but eventually settled into using SLS as our primary choice. It wasn't long after that that I found a surprising email waiting for us. A couple from the Melbourne area, about 70 minutes away, was inviting us to their place for a party. Admittedly we were too new to know what to do at a swinger's party (other than the obvious, of course). They host on Saturday nights, and it would just be too
So, we've been playing the Karezza game for about four months now and have refined a few of our earlier observations.
Think of the continuum between sexual satisfaction and sexual frustration much like the number line we all learned in grade school. Frustration, would be the negative numbers and satisfaction the positive. We each have a range of preferred locations along this line. A fulfilling and exciting sexual encounter is likely to put us higher on the scale of satisfaction. Any particul
I often think about what makes our adventures work. I'd always thought that my wife had to have a little crush on the other guy, but I'm beginning to suspect that she had a crush on us-- me and the other guy as friends.
I am a Monty Python nut! I've got all the TV shows and movies, and I quote regularly. My wife had a bad emotional experience in a midnight showing of "The Holy Grail" some years ago, so she was never all that interested. But she loved to hear me quote from their silliest sketch
"What on Earth Are We Doing?" was the legend on the t-shirt my wife wore on our first anniversary. It was a gift from the NRDC or something, all cotton. She stood in front of the camera, posing so that the legend filled the frame. Then she stepped back, revealing the rest of her luscious body, and I took her shirt off.
It was our first kinky departure from standard marriage fare, making love on video-tape. We went back the next day and did it again, this time focusing on oral play. I felt like
My wife and I have been delving into this Lifestyle for a few months now...since March I guess. We have attended an on-premise club several times. Some ups and downs along the way but I wouldn't trade any of them as they are experiences that we have learned from.
We have met some awesome people along the way. I have decided that I feel we belong around this type of crowd. I was telling my wife just yesterday that I feel we are too 'wild and crazy' to be around 'normal' people. I hate that te
We met them a couple week ago at a Meet & Greet. We were already interested.
A week later was "Girls Uncorked", where the ladies sit at talk about LS. No play, just female bonding. Mrs. was there, as was the female of this pair. We tried for a couple days to set up a date, but couldn't get to work. At the same time we had to back out of plans to see another couple that we've played with before.
Last Thursday, another M&G, and both couples were there. We reschedule our broken d
So I have had this male emailing me from Swing Lifestyle... he is young... almost 10 yrs younger than me... which I dont mind... but he is in his 20's and I feel not very mature... not that all 20 yr old are not mature... but he seems very immature... well his first few emails were a few months ago and it was just him... we informed him we were not interested in a single male at that time... then he said he had a girlfriend... well we still informed him that we were not really interested cause w
The last two days have been just that for the Sweet family. Mr. Sweet had his surgery yesterday. He didn’t want to let it show, but I knew he was very nervous; even before they took his blood pressure. I was more worried about his nerves than the surgery itself. Perhaps that was because at the very same time, in another hospital, a good friend was undergoing surgery to remove at least part of a cancerous mass. His wife and I kept each other company via text.
Both guys thankfully had su
We have had quite the roller-coaster week here in the Sweet household. It began with some terribly sad news. The sweet, beautiful l nine-year-old girl across the street (a good friend of my daughter's who practically lived here) was killed in a horrific car crash that also claimed the life of her father. Her mother is still in critical condition and may be paralyzed. Her older brothers (with whom my son was close) were also injured. The older boy has a severed spine and is paralyzed from t
We have in our home a magnificent grandfather clock whose mechanism came from Germany but whose entire walnut case was made, over the course of three years using simple woodworking tools, by my father-in-law. It is beautiful to look at and keeps perfect time but I had noticed right away that the door on the pendulum compartment would not close completely and latch. So I decided to take out a few simple tools of my own and install at new a spring-loaded latch for the door.
I did not make t
...that you are probably a size queen and have been in denial for years about it...
I tend to joke with folks that not everything is bigger in Texas...some people obviously didn't get that memo. Partially I think it was my general luck of finding partners when I lived in Ohio that were at least average sized (5-6 inches) and more than a few that tipped over the 8 inch mark. Who knew there were either so many decent sized guys there or maybe I had a better radar for it back then?
I guess s
I’m baaaaaaack! That’s right, folks, I survived what had to be the Busiest. Vacation. Ever. The drive out to Pittsburgh was uneventful, but I wish I could say the same for the return trip. I’ll get back to that in a moment.
After settling into our room, Mr. Sweet and I took the kids to see Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows 2. I was quite pleased to see that the series was finished off as well as it had begun. MIL chose to go to the casino, but was already in her room when we returned
With all thanks to Brad Delp and Boston, it was the only thing I could feel after Saturday night.
Mrs and I spent Friday night at our friends house, had a great time with them until 3 in the morning, then helped get ready for the party the next evening.
Things were scheduled to start at 8, and she arrived not long afterward with her husband. She was every bit as strikingly beautiful as their Swing Lifestyle profile indicated. And those legs that went on forever. I said hello to them bot
I suppose, it's existence is not dependent on your or my beliefs. What exactly IS "sex magic"? Is sex ALWAYS magic even when we don't intentionally desire any conjuring?
Every civilization has a complex set of rules that limit individual sexual behavior. Violators are labeled as deviants and they suffer social disapproval. The limitations serve to restrict the exploration and practice of sex magic.
I think "sex" is a conduit of strong cosmic energy and this energy CAN be intentionally mani
Reading another blog I had an inspiration!
How and when do you make that first move? Sometimes it can be real difficult to decide when and how to make it known that you want to get things moving towards the naked fun.
A lot depends on where you are and what has transpired already.
Say you are out on a "date" with a couple or single, everyone seems to be clicking and you know that you are ready to take it to the next level. Now is when preplanning comes in, (assuming that you are not tied
So our friends J&J have done it again... after a great time on Friday evening... and camping over the weekend... they have ended our "playtime" again... see the first time they ended it was because of her... she was having anxiety over her past sexual experiences... we talked about it and she felt better... so we were able to have a sexual experiece again... it went well for her and my hubby... they we were great together... me and her hubby not so well... I didnt get much pleasure... he cou
Last weekend turned out to be one of the most fun weekends we've had in awhile. Our dear friends came down to stay with us, and we all spent last Saturday at the Jersey Shore. (Yes, that Jersey Shore.) No celebs were spotted, though we did see a camera crew on their break.
We hit sand and surf. Or should I say, the surf hit us. The water was unusually rough, and while we set up 'camp' about a dozen feet from the water's edge, a couple of big waves rolled in and soaked our stuff.
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Since Saturday we've talked about our weekend several times, and I realize how erotic the memories are in hindsight. Even though I had a hard time (well actually a soft time) in the moment, the memories are sexy as hell. I love the fact that *A* is willing to take full ownership of her pleasure and I am fully willing to be dragged along on this journey. Now I have some work to do. I need to figure out how to disable my analytical mind and just enjoy the sights and sensations in the moment.
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Attending 3 lifestyle clubs in two days felt pretty decadent, but we weren't going to let a kidless weekend escape unused so we decided to revisit the X club again Saturday night. We arrive at the club a little after 10 PM and the crowd was smaller and the DJ hadn't started spinning yet. We got our drinks from the bar and again picked a sofa with a good vantage point and settled in to watch the crowd arrive.
We were pleased to find that the crowd was even more attractive than the Friday night
X Club was about a 30 minute drive from M4 and as we drove we talked about what we liked and disliked about M4 and what we hoped to find at X.
X is located discreetly in an industrial park, unlike M4, I had little concern about being spotted entering the club. Even though we arrived after 11PM we were greeted warmly by one of the co-owners and given a thorough tour of the club. The front area looked like an upscale nightclub/bar and it was full of attractive people (mostly couples and single
As I mentioned in our intro, we've been enjoying a couple of weeks sans kids. Last weekend we decided to give clubs another try. There were two on our list that were relatively close and we'd read good things about (M4 and X). M4 was the closest of the two clubs so we decided to try it Friday night.
M4 is located in the basement of an office building on a fairly busy commercial street surrounded by retail and close to residential neighbourhoods. The parking lot was full and we ended up with o
