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How many?

There is a club around here that says they let only in a pre-set number of single males. They usually also put up a note when they are sold out for single guys (that note is usually up on wendnestey for friday nights and friday for saturday nights)   Still, there are voices that say that they don't really limit it, and last week there was a complain from a couple about the club having to many singles in   So now they put up numbers for last weekend   Friday: 46 couples, 3 females, 21 males
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Current Top 5 LifeStyle annoyances

1) Youngster Parties There was a couple who held over 50 parties for couples in the age-range from 18-35. Due to bad blood with the owners of the original club they held this party they moved it to two other places and the attendence went down. Now they quit, and gave the rights to said party to one of the two new clubs. The original club is not setting up a similar event again, and there is fighting about them not having the right to make parties for young people. Meanwhile 3 other clubs h
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You never know everything about yourself

There I was, a girl of 27, once bi-curious, but now just bi-comfortable after the first 10 or so encounters with other femals did not turn out as anything special   Well, at least that is what I believed to be until past friday!   C is known as a very energic, warmhearted and passionate girl on a local ad site. This weekend she announced her first visit to my prefered club.   I meet her and her male partner for the evening in the dinner area, and talked for a bit with them and another couple
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Oh my dear!!!

Today my gyn found out that sometime in the last 12 months I must have lost my IUD.   I guess I'm lucky that I insist on condoms.
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... crashing down

I guess I should write about what happend with the date I mentioned in my last blog entry.   We meet, I was hot again when I got in his car and we started to make out nice enough once we got to the playroom. Unfortunatly he seemed to lose interrest once we were naked, and even my best oral work couldn't bring back his errection.   He then told me that he was only split from his ex since 4 weeks, and only wanted to prove to himself (and maybe her as well) that he can have a dozen other women a
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Get me going again...

I really hoped I could write about something fantastic again soon. A sexdate were I just clicked with the hot guy and we went off to have hot steamy sex that does not only leave the body but also the mind satisfied.   The last day in the hospital after the cat attack it looked like the problems with the new meds broke and I am my old horny self. So today I was having a look at the add site and soon enough I found a guy that liked to meet and have drinks on the evening. We went to a bar and
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They are not joking...

... about one of the side effects of my new medicine being the loss of interrest in sex.   After weeks without any play I got together with a guy I usually enjoy playing with a lot this evening, but I just wasn't able to move it further after we got out of the cinema.   So now the question remains if things will get better once I'm getting used to the pills, or if I'm looking out to a year without any interrest in sex...
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So what are the differences....

So what I found to be handeld differently between the majority of Swingers I know in RL (mostly people from three diffrent Europen Countries) and on this board (mostly US people)   - Over here people don't care about cheating singles. We think it is their problem if they get caught doing something they should not do   - The idea of Off-Premise. While there are M&G gatherings where people can go just to meet and talk, they usually have a back room for play also.   - The Onlookers. I don't
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Fun with the Dutch...

Living in one of the Euro08 Host Cities has it's advantages. 100 000 Dutch soccer fans ready for fun. (Even if you feel naked if you don't wear anything in orange) So I donned my orange bikini top, a black skirt and went out to one of the public viewing zones. Well, the fun was spoiled as the Russians keept scoring, but two of the Dutch guy where thankfully distracted enough to notice that I was starting to feel a bit cold, and they came closer in an effort to wam me They did really good as
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Fed up with searching for some play

So I tried to get my chances up to have a play date for the club at saturday. I set up and ad searching for a guy age 30 - 45, at least regular sized cock and able to peform more then 5 minutes. Please send a full body picture as well.   3 guys answerd wanting sex right now, because they can't go out on saturday 10 guys wrote who are not in the age frame by 10 years (both older and younger) Not a single guy sent a picture   Why am I still trying to hook up with somebody?!? I'm not attracte
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Ups and Downs

My life is currently not on the uphill. It was really bad to see how this influenced my libido in the past week. There was just no interrest in playing with myself let alone searching for someone else.   Last Friday/Saturday must have been the worst. I went to a music festival with Mister M. I wasn't in the mood for searching a playpartner and Mister M is not into robbing any craddles. (There were hardly any people over 20 years old - just drunken and stoned teens) In the end I wasn't even
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Hunting for a relationship!

In theory a swing club could be the best place to hunt down a future boyfriend. In one go you could find out if you are sexually compatible. See if you like the same things, if cocks and tits are bit enough and if the other person is willing to pleasure you the right way ... love can come later! (It workd for hundreds of years, that you married first and perhaps fell in love later ... and if love does not happen, you still have great sex)   But well, just in theory.. in reality swing clubs are
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Statistics

Last year I really had the feeling to be out of control about my swinging so I started writing down my statistics this year.   This thread had me go back and count   Out of 13 visits there were 5 without any play. The other 8 times I got to play with a total of 13 men. (With 8 of those actual penetration happened, with 4 of those more then once)   The numbers kind of surprise me as I had the feeling that I don't get to play just every other time. I guess I just reme
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It is time for....

... GPS powered dicks!!!! I'm really tired of guys fucking my legs because they can't find my pussy   Out of 4 guys tonight only one found the right entrance     And yes, I'm writing this drunk, why do you ask?!?
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Thank god, it's Monday

This weekend will go down with three of the worst play-dates I ever had!   1) Friday I meet up with Miss S and two of her friends. One guy is the one she currently got the hots for and the other was along to get hooked up with me. I just came from work, and was rather tired, and just in for a drink or two. Just as I was about to leave, Miss S announces that she will go down to the playrooms now, and grabs my hand to come along. Her friend starts to massage my neck, so I’ don’t protest much
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Not Crazy... Insane

Five mails and two pictures later and I can say... yes, it is my boss.... and no... I will never get the sight of his cock out of my mind....
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OMG!!!! This is crazy!!!

On a regional based plattform like SLS I just got a message from a guy, telling me to hop in the bus, so we can see each other this night.   Nothing bad per se ... but the guy has two pictures in his profile showing off his tattoos and a part of his face. Together with his name and his height this makes him look like my boss .......   (Never mind that this week my boss made more then one remark about going to the "Sauna Club" - as vanillas over here call swinger clubs - and him needing some s
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You can't always be (or get) lucky

Looks like all plans for tomorrow are off   - Miss S is on the rag and has cancelled party plans - Contacted three other guys for doing the party without the clique, but have not heard back from two and one had to cancel   - Could go out with another guy to regular club. But the guy is a bit creepy and a a bad lay, and I just played with him last week because Miss S told me how fantasic his big cock is
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Just two notes

I'm currently a bit too busy to get the events from last weekend and this weekend down, so I have just two notes   - I need to bring a sing to swing "Beware the tight pussy" If I had one € everytime a guy enters me, groans "oh, you're so tight" and just comes in seconds I would not have to be freaked out because of note 2   - 100€ entrance fee for a single woman to a swing party?!???? WTF!!!!! Never mind that I would need the same amount for the train ticket as well I guess next saturday I
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Posasible weekend activity

I could get a free entry to a Fetish Party I'm just not big a fetish fan, and already had a little discussion with the organisator about a velvet dress beine ok for dressing. (For me velvet if way more erotic then leather or rubber)   So now that I got the ok for the dress I still don't know if I really want to go...   I guess that is the cautious me, who just fears to be rejected at an unknown place
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So you don't want the money?

Before I became a swinger I sometimes worked as a phone sex operator. I had a rather high daily revenue.   I planned to get some extra money this year by going back to that job, but the company I worked for does not longer exist.   So I did some research and found the company that currently ownes the most lines in the country. I sent them my CV by email, also mentioned that calls coming my way averaged around 10 minutes (the general average is around 3 minutes) and that I have no problems wo
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Unexpected touches

I’m not comfortable with people who always only see sex in everything and don’t seem to be able to enjoy something if there is no sex and possible swinging involved. These kind of people go to an amusement park and come home rating it not for the thrill of the rides, but how many times they managed to put Tab A into Slot B in a hidden corner and how many other Tabs they got to enter Slot B.   There are two public pools around the city I live in. Both have a sauna area wit a large nude area. O
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Fun at Easter

I went to the club at good-Friday.   As usual on a bank holiday there were not that many people there, but still enough.   I kind of got lucky as soon as I got there. There was a guy at the bar who beckoned me to sit right next to him, when getting the first glass of champagne from the hostess.   We talked for a bit, and he asked me to go downstairs to the playrooms even before dinner.   Aside from two single male waiting for the fun to start we were the first ones down, and choose the o
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Dramatis Personae

I love blogs and I just can't resist the chance to write one about swinging for readers who are also part of the lifestyle.   As I noticed that most of the people on the board are from the US/Canada you may also get the chance to see the differences between how things work on diffrent parts of the world (This is also the part where I would ask you to forgive some mistakes that are not just typos but make it clear that English is not even my 2nd language - more like the 4th)     People you are
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Dramatis Personae

I love blogs and I just can't resist the chance to write one about swinging for readers who are also part of the lifestyle.   As I noticed that most of the people on the board are from the US/Canada you may also get the chance to see the differences between how things work on diffrent parts of the world (This is also the part where I would ask you to forgive some mistakes that are not just typos but make it clear that English is not even my 2nd language - more like the 4th)     People you are
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