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Busy Girly!

Oh shoot, I've been absent for nearly 3 weeks. Which means that I've been ignoring all the messages in my inbox - which i feel terrible about...a ton of people must think i'm a jerk. but life just got away from me this month, and i had to put fun stuff on the back burner.   *sigh*   BUT ....during my "blackout" period I did get to go to a rather fun house party!!   OH HELL YES.   lets just say, when i was getting rammed for the third time that night, and suddenly turned around and realized
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stealth sheilds deactivated!

thankfully...as predicted by the members here...the inbox is not filling quite as quickly anymore! phew!   so i've just about got all the emails from my hiatus answered. i do love that "quick reply" option! i fear at times it might sound a bit too generic....but i need to stop worrying about it.   i'm learning that I really do have an aversion to "newer" couples. at first i wanted to keep an open mind about it, but as time has gone on, i've had a lot more concerns pop up in my mind. i'm
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stealth mode!

as soon as my friend finally gets on his airplane from LA to to here, i will have company...so i need to go into SLS STEALTH MODE. mwuahahaha!   this basically just means erasing my computer history and hiding the prepaid phone I bought for this stuff. It's not as intriguing as it sounds.   oh, and i should hide my new toys.   oh, and my lingerie.   hmmmm...and maybe I should turn off the prepaid phone so it doesn't ring in the closet in the middle of the night.   i'm off to do those thi
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Ejection Bed!

ok, i give in!!! UNCLE UNCLE UNCLE!!   i'm dying under the crushing weight of my "TO DO" list. oh, this week is going to be bad. and then i have a friend coming in from out of town over the weekend, so i have to clean on top of everything. and erase all traces on my computer of this stuff, LOL. poor thing, he's a little too innocent, his head would explode.   Sunday I had a bowling party to go to for a photographer I know. Turns out I was the only other photographer there....the rest of
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I'm not always "on"...

I realize this is swinging and when it comes right down to it, it's about sex. And I love sex! Sex loves me. I like thinking about it and talking about it.   But not constantly.   This morning I got online when I got to my office, and saw that I'd left the yahoo on overnight and had a bunch of messages. I decided to go ahead and respond. I told everyone I was just chatting while I warmed up to the idea of work. Just saying friendly hellos!   This worked with some, and we had friendly and
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Dating is fun...I should have done this long ago!

I've never really been the kind of gal to go on dates. I meet guys at parties, at work, at school...and over a long period of being friends...then being friends who kiss...then being friends who spend the night...suddenly we just wake up one day and decide we're "together."   In college I had a couple of "dates" that were very awkward, boring, long, offensive...etc. And just decided it wasn't my thing.   For this whole experiment to work though...I couldn't avoid the first dates. Yes yes, I
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New and Improved! Now with "experience"! :)

yesterday was abso-bloomin-lutely awesome.   i am now officially part of the community. i have now enjoyed full swap fun. i have now officially confirmed my previous 'theory' that I would enjoy tasting the the nether regions of another girl. i have now made two wonderful new friends!   i am now exhausted!   really though, i'm most excited about the people! it is soooo nice to have met a couple of wonderful fun people, who i really have a great time with, and feel totally comfortable whe
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random thoughts of a tired/busy girl

i feel like i've met all these new people...and then i'm immediately letting them down by not being available all the time! it sometimes takes me a few days to answer emails, and i'm not always at my desk when people IM me, and this weekend I need to just take a total break to get stuff done. so, i apologize. i hope no one thinks i'm just being a bitch and ignoring them!   this week i've been dealing with the migraine thing, so i'm just really behind on work. tonight i had a WONDERFUL massag
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i've got a headache...

actually...i've had a headache for 25 days now.   i got a mild concussion at the beginning of the month, and the headache never went away. ct scan came up fine, so no worries, just have to live through it. For the most part, it's just been a mild headache, but the past few days have nearly reached migraine level.   today i even had to take some (prescribed) vicodin at work, which led to me napping under my desk for an hour,   i am soooooo hoping this doesn't ruin my plans for monday. i'd
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Gentlemen...Start Your ....Cameras!!

Ok, i like photos of women's boobs as much as the next guy (oh, wait, actually not, lol...but they are very appealing!) Boobs are great. front boobs...side boobs....boobs in push up bras...boobs being kissed....boobs on the beach...boobs boobs boobs.   i get it, they're very stimulating. ;-)   but why are most couples' profiles so focused on boobs? 95% of all the couple's photos I've seen are of just the female....and about 80% of those are just of the boobs.   so here's a plea...bring o
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Sexy Play Outfits?

i am seriously lacking in the sexy-things-to-wear department.   i used to have lots of cute things! but then i got started on my masters degree, and started a new side business...all while working full time. oh, and i kind of wrote a book in there somewhere. soooooooooo....i ate fast food for two years and stayed in front of the computer all day....resulting in weight gain of alarming proportions. yuck.   so all my cute things went to good will or the trash. *sigh*   fast forward to a
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Whoohoo! It went great!

yay, last night was perfect!   i don't want to get into too much of a habit of posting details of nights out, but since it was a first for me, i think it warrants a little something   of course, last night was a no-play date, just a meet and greet with one of the first couples i'd started talking to. they were GREAT! we went to dinner, and when the restaurant closed we went to a bar. and when the bar closed, we still weren't done talking, but it was nearly 2!   by this time i felt extreme
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First "Date" Tonight!

So tonight will be my first "meet up" with a local couple. It's a no-expectations night, just dinner and conversation, but I'm excited. Probably best if I don't get nekked, since I still look funny from the spray-tan fiasco. LOL. (So far my armpits, under my breasts, the sides of my thighs, and my toenails (eww) are still tanned...but otherwise I'm back to looking Irish. Sexy Sexy!)   I'm not sure just how this will go...I guess like any other time I meet new people. I'm a self confident
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Me+Spray Tanning = No Bueno

I have to admit. The allure of spray tanning sounded great. 60 seconds? yes please. nice tan? yes please! no possibility of skin cancer or early aging? Oh baby bring it on!!!   i've got a friends wedding coming up soon, for which I'll be the maid of honor...and i want to look like a bronze goddess (ok, really i just don't want to blind people...i'll settle for "beige"). I've used tanning beds before, but only in short stints...since I'm a tad afraid of the risks. I love it though...best 1
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Intuition? Or paranoia?

I'm trying as much as possible to enjoy this time when i'm getting a lot of attention. I do love attention...and I'm trying to savor it rather than get overwhelmed. I'm also trying to be a bit selective. Anyway.   So I chatted with a couple last night who sounded great! They are local, professionals, and attractive. I chatted with them both by im, but via separate conversations. Evidently they have a F/B relationship and don't see each other too often.   I chatted with him first. He see
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i need a secretary

i just got the inbox down from 21 to 7...but now that i've had a bottle of champagne i think i'll quit. (don't worry, i don't drink that often, i just really wanted some bubbly tonight! and i sober quickly...which can be a pest...but is also the reason why i'm still typing legibly.)   it's a little overwhelming to have so many couples contact you...so many nice people that i want to meet! with 2 careers and an existing social life, i'm not entirely sure how to make it work, but i'm giving it
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Um...hello, can we get to the sex already?!

haha, ok kidding. i'm not quite that impatient...but I would like for my last sexual encounter to no longer be the one that happened last sunday.   it was bad. i mean....he was bad. *sigh* and to make it worse, he kept saying my name over and over and over (about 100 times...it's the only thing he said) in a weird creepy raspy whisper straight out of a horror movie. it made me afraid of myself. anyway....   lets just say I was less than satisfied a week ago. and 4 days ago, i decided to j
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