Well, I have been lurking on this site for many years and have added very little to the content. My plight is probably very similar to many that come here and lurk or even participate in the conversation. I would like to get involved in the lifestyle and my wife is reluctant.
First, for some background information about us. We dated in high school, married about 5 years later. She had a serious boyfriend before I came along while I never really dated much or was that sexually active
