Over the last year or so of our adventures into the lifestyle I have kept a blog on 360 of thoughts and encounters I thought others might enjoy. While 360 is a suitable forum for my postings I'm always running the risk that they might be deleted or my account suspended because of the adult nature of the posts. There is also the draw of the undesirables which I'll probably rant about at another time, lol.

Until then, my last post there and first post here:

I have realized in the hotwife lifestyle, men are at a slight disadvantage. I’m not talking about the sex, because the sex between my wife and I is the best it has ever been and it keeps getting better. What I am referring to is sharing in the excitement about a recent encounter with a friend. Due to how society generally views gender roles; women are able to have vanilla friends enjoy in their excitement. My wife has several of these friends and with each retelling she gets to experience the excitement. “You did what to him in the parking lot? OMG I am so jealous!” How many guys would react similarly? “Your wife did what to him in the parking lot?” I have shared with a few vanilla friends about our lifestyle and the responses I’ve received have been “Why?” and “How can I meet her in a parking lot?” So my excitement sharing is very limited and that has lead me to another realization. I need this forum to express my excitement and hopefully get a few “OMG I am so jealous” comments, lol.

Our adventures have declined over the past few months, partially because we’ve tried to change up how we meet new people. But we’ve found that our original set up works best for us. After feeling comfortable with someone new (through chats, emails, phone calls, etc) we set up a public meet. My wife meets him and if things go well we all rendezvous for some fun. Most recently there was a guy we met through sls that my wife met and she really enjoyed the few drinks they shared. So much so after the establishment closed at midnight they found their way to the backseat of his SUV. On her way home she filled me in on the overview of the evening, “we talked about this and that and then this…oh and I blew him…” I couldn’t resist attacking her when she got home, but I did restrain a little to allow her to describe the evening.

My wife takes great pride oral skills and so do I for that matter, lol. With her night ending so well and then coming home to my welcome, she remembered why we enjoy this lifestyle so much and how important it is to us because of the benefits we receive as individuals and as a couple.

I hope someone can appreciate my excitement. The woman I’m married to, the love of my life, the mother of my children is also the fulfiller of my fantasies, what’s not to get excited about?