TNT,

Mention it to the host if he starts up. Let them deal with it.

S

He's not annoying in person...as he said in his last e-mail, he won't approach me/us at parties. At parties, he stays on the opposite side of the room and just leers...something I can easily ignore.

A bit of an update...I just sent an e-mail reply to his "girlfriend"...a lady that sometimes joins him at parties. She is very nice. She e-mailed me asking if I might consider playing with her...her yes, him no...which was what I told her in my reply. Not knowing their exact relationship we felt it was best to be totally honest with her. She might help get the point across to him, who knows.

Do other people at the party think he's an asshole too??

I had to chuckle a little when I read your post. I'm looking forward to tomorrows post. LOL Have a great time tonight!

Not sure...we know of one other couple who also find his e-mails annoying.

We're not too worried about him being there tonight...we're going to have fun regardless and...should any problems arise that either Ted or I can't handle, we have every confidence that the host can.

If he is a single guy he damn well should appreciate the fact that he has been invited to a party of couples. Makes no difference whether they are married or single. After thinking about this..not for long, but just part of lifes experiences LADIES..How often do you find a guy staring at you in a bar or some other public venue??No Doubt, TOO OFTEN. Regards, Tim.