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srlkokie75

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Well, we have been swinging since nov,2007 and have only been with one person. We were talking the other night, about our Rules:)

and apparently do not agree on some things. woo hoo, well anyway. I have a fantasy where I am with another female, (that is why we got into swinging, lol) well, I asked him what about the first time i am with a female it is just me and her, Oh no, that did not go well at all. His first response was(u are trying to leave me out)

come on what part of this is wrong. I would never leave him out of anything, I love my husband deeply. I also have a fantasy of more than one man with me,Oh so awesome, I like it rough some times and he gets to exctied to fast when he does that. But i love it, major turn on. There is alot I would like to try, but do not want to jepordize my relationship, so how do i convince him that i am not trying to leave him out, just want to make sure i am secure with all this too??? FF part anyway. He still have problems with actual intercourse with another male, which dont get me wrong I understand. I would love to see him being please by another female.

Swinging issues are so fun. LOL:D:kissface::confused:

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What does he feel he is being left out of specifically? Is he upset that he's not going to get to watch the show? (I know of very few guys that do not want to see two women.) I would talk it out a little more and see if you can get to the root of the issue. Does he think that he will be totally left out of the loop as far as when a playtime would be taking place and he'll just come home one day and you're all 'guess what honey!?!?!' lol

 

For me personally, when we're in the room with others (even if we're just playing with each other)...I can seriously feel myself shift into 'performer' mode because I know there is (or potentially is) an audience.

 

I've yet to have a full blown FF experience, but if I were to do so...I have told my sweetie that I am most comfortable doing it solo (as in just me and the other girl) so that I do not get into my exhibishonist state of mind and can just more fully be in the moment, if that makes sense. And my sweetie is ok with that if/when it ever happens.

 

Perhaps you need to also explain your reasoning to your sweetie a little more as well.

 

Good luck! :)

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