Well, we have been swinging since nov,2007 and have only been with one person. We were talking the other night, about our Rules:)

and apparently do not agree on some things. woo hoo, well anyway. I have a fantasy where I am with another female, (that is why we got into swinging, lol) well, I asked him what about the first time i am with a female it is just me and her, Oh no, that did not go well at all. His first response was(u are trying to leave me out)

come on what part of this is wrong. I would never leave him out of anything, I love my husband deeply. I also have a fantasy of more than one man with me,Oh so awesome, I like it rough some times and he gets to exctied to fast when he does that. But i love it, major turn on. There is alot I would like to try, but do not want to jepordize my relationship, so how do i convince him that i am not trying to leave him out, just want to make sure i am secure with all this too??? FF part anyway. He still have problems with actual intercourse with another male, which dont get me wrong I understand. I would love to see him being please by another female.

Swinging issues are so fun. LOL:D:kissface: