We thought you did have all the answers! ;-)

I pondered this same question on occasion...balance...every time I pass out a card that has the SB URL on it, I always think...."Do I really want them to come to the board and read about us? What if I post something about them?"...I usually come to the conclusion...What the hell and give them the card.

T.

I had a similar thought when I responded to the thread about things to not say when you're trying to hook-up. What if they're offended by my perception of the event? I've met several couples at parties that say they read the comments here - but they don't participate in the discussions. Do they know more about me than I think they do?

I guess communication is seldom the wrong answer - except perhaps at the poker table

I guess maybe sometimes if they read it here that may be the only way they will learn that what they did was stupid.

We were just discussing a similar issue the other night...worrying about writing a blog about a bad encounter and wondering if they'd read it if they ever became members...who knows, maybe they are. It's always so nice to have a place to come and ask questions and have conversations in anonymity.

That's been a concern of mine as well. I decided that I'd just try to be polite as possible regarding most situations I'd post about. And figured if I had something to post about someone that a good thing couldn't be found in the encounter, well, I doubted I'd be seeing them again anyway.