Are you thinking about dropping them a message letting them know of your interest?

I would think since they are new, they would probably appreciate it, and would find it encouraging. Especially since you verbally let them know you were interested, the follow up message might ensure they find a babysitter very soon.

We already did that the day after meeting them. Their reply was not quite as receptive as I would have hoped though so I fear that they may have still taken the way we left things at the bar as a lack of interest.

We've run into this before, where signals got crossed or miscommunication in person led things going nowhere. Sometimes it's like if you don't take the opportunity WHEN it presents itself it just won't present itself again.

I had a similar situation at a recent house party. I keep second-guessing myself - did I do the right thing? There's something to be said for "striking while the iron is hot" while patience is also a virtue. I'm finding comfort in the thought that I took the opportunity to be confident we can communicate well together before we hop in bed and just hope for a really good time. Now I know when the next opportunity for playtime arrises, I'll be confident everyone can have a fun time.

I wouldn't know what to think about a total newbie couple that suggested a sixsome as their first experience. I would need plenty of communication with them to understand their expectations.

I sure wouldn't want to be the 4th couple in that story.

That was where we were kinda having issues as well. Considering their status we definately weren't expecting them to want to play that night, let alone to initiate a 6some. On one hand we would have enjoyed playing with them, on the other hand I keep thinking "what if something went wrong". I just wouldn't want to be associated with that.

On the upside it seems they are more confident in what they want, based on the changes to their SLS profile since that night. They've gone from seeking same room sex and possible oral exchange to seeking full swap. I don't know what if anything happened after we left the bar but evidently the night was a good start for them.