well as we were on a down low for a bit and recently got back active, I had put the profile up in SLS, met a nice couple, then the wife descided to update the profile,

a few more chatty folks but not alot of action, I am sure the fact that we are had to connect with has something to do with it, my hours are not condusive to us being together for a chat often.

the couple invited us to a sex toy party, we were unaware that all the couples were going to be swingers which made for a real fun party lol, the poor hostess ... after the party we were invited over to one fo the couples house they had a hot tub:cool: and all 4 couples that made it to the party were there and in we all went neked was very fun but as we all got to know each other chatting and touching we forgot about real hot water and the need to drink water or get out and take a break alas as the fun was ramping up full steam I had to excuse myself and sit on the side lines, almost passed out ... On the upside we ALL were so comfy together almost like we had been friends for a long time, and the folks with a hot tub live a couple blocks away, it would take longer to get into the car than the drive would to get there lol ... I know I know.. walk you fool LOL ...

it was just so great to be with a group and feel like we all belonged together, and we are looking to grow the group, we are all shapes sizes and ages, I think the youngest was early 30s, and the eldest pushing 50 ... and all accepting , no judgment ... as it should always be ( but alas we know it is not always so.