Well, not counting anything we've done before, we officially inducted ourselves into the lifestyle on Wed, August 6th.

This summer we spent 5 weeks apart. We spend 3 weeks apart every couple of months as I go out on tour and usually, about halfway through we start feeling the sexual frustration and start messaging each other with little horny texts, or she'll go and masturbate in a bathroom somewhere and send me pictures, I'll enjoy our homemade movies on my laptop in the hotel, etc.

This time my being on tour coincided with her taking the kids to her parent's and I came home 2 weeks before she did. The usual hornyness ensued, however this time I recieved an e-mail after my return, suggesting we check out and possibly join New Horizons, a swingers club that happens to be 3 minutes from our place (who knew!?)

New Horizons has bigger parties on weekends as well as mid week pot lucks, and we decided to ease into the experience with a pot luck.

We showed up with nothing to contribute (an option...you just have to pay a little extra if you want to eat) not wanting to have something sit in the car while we attend the orientation. After said orientation (and tour of the facilities) we joined the club and stayed, playing for the next 6 hours before returning home quite satisfied!

I think I'll let her document our first pot luck!