I'm trying as much as possible to enjoy this time when i'm getting a lot of attention. I do love attention...and I'm trying to savor it rather than get overwhelmed. I'm also trying to be a bit selective. Anyway.

So I chatted with a couple last night who sounded great! They are local, professionals, and attractive. I chatted with them both by im, but via separate conversations. Evidently they have a F/B relationship and don't see each other too often.

I chatted with him first. He seemed great! Very nice, easy to talk to. Then, she got online, and I started chatting with her in a separate window. Then the red flags started appearing:

1 - she mostly talked about how awesome he was in bed

2 - they never talked at the same time...one or the other, in large spans

3 - she will be out of town, but encouraged me to meet him without her

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. yeah buddy....sure.

now i'm all paranoid that he's really a single male, who made up this whole other chick just so he could get me trust him enough to meet. How lame would that be!?!!

i could be really mistaken here, cause he seemed so nice at first. then again, i didn't click with her...she was way too aggressive in chat. ..... i think i'm going to have to vote my intuition on this one...it's a no go!