As I said in our introduction, my wife and I are comletely new to this lifestyle. Recently, we met (online) a very nice lady who was willing to explain things to us and answer our questions. After several e-mails, she invited us to try a club in our area. Last Saturday night, we met the lady and her husband at the club. They gave us a tour of the club, and introduced us to a very nice couple the thought we might like.

The club is in a "private" home, in a quiet area. There were lots of nice rooms, both private and public. We saw some interesting equipment including a swing and a St Andrews Cross(more about that later).

There was a small crowd at the party, only about 20-30 people all night. After spending a while talking to the couple we had been introduced to, we decided to move on. We were very nervous, and unsure how to get things started. Eventually, my wife got into a conversation with a young lady at the bar, and she took my wife over to meet her husband. after a bit, I was invited into the conversation. Shortly, my wife told me we were all going upstairs for some girl on girl action. The g/g stuff lasted for a few minutes, and then the other husband was invited into the play. When my wife noticed that I was still standing in a corner, The other gal said "you can join, if you want" When it became apparent that the other couple were really not interested in having me there, I opted out. Soon after that, my wife left the group, and she and I put the Cross to some good use for our own pleasure.

(Lesson learned #1 During pre action conversation, make sure you are all on the same page as to what everyone wants.) Have to admit, the other couple seemed to really enjoy watching what we were doing on the cross.

Spent most of the rest of the evening meeting and talking with people at the club. Towards the end of the evening, we ran across a "single man" that my wife had commented favorably on earlier. A short conversation showed that he and she were both interested in playing, so I suggested we adjourn upstairs so they could get better aquainted. After a long period of serious screwing, it became obvious that neither of them were going to complete the deal, so my wife asked me to grab a vibrator and help her. When my wife "gets off" under the right circumstances, she has orgasms that can be astounding (or even frightening) to most people. We are talking sound, fury, and spasms that will knock you right off the bed. These can go on for a couple of minutes. Well, the other man was watching, and I think he almost got scared. His eyes got as bigh as saucers, his mouth gaped open and he just sat there staring. After it subsided, he asked if that happens often. When I told him it could happen 2 or 3 times a night, he just sat there grinning.

That was the end of our first experience at a club. What came next was the "hot monkey sex" after we got home (after 3 in the morning) and twice the next day. Also, we have not stopped talking about the evening and plans to go back again.

My wife keeps trying to worry about the fact that I didn't connect with anyone at the club, but I keep reassuring her that things will improve as time goes on. All in all, the evening was a lot of fun, and we will see what the future brings.