You may have noticed I've had more time to be online the last week. Swingersboard is one of two places I visit when I get time. The other being a poly board I belong to. If I have more time after visiting these two places I go onto see how things are going at a few more. One is a blog site and I'm there infrequently enough that I'm not really comfortable with navigating there.

I visited there last night and answered a post because it was just too close to something I had been through not too. I just can't seem to keep my mouth shut. Anyway, I was asked by the poster to email with her as she had some questions. I have an anonymous email account for my poly accounts so I gave it to her. I don't mind talking and telling our story but why do I think that it can help someone? I mean, we've made many mistakes along the way. Mostly I feel for lack of research. We didn't research it because we fell into it.

Anyway, as I write this, I think I answered my own question. I share because of this site. It is such an awesome place and so helpful. While the poly board I belong to is as helpful as it can be, it is small, very small compared to this. I don't share there as often as I share on even smaller sites I've found. I try to direct people there and hopefully the community will grow as this one has. I just want people to know they aren't alone in this world. Finding support for poly relationships has proven more difficult than for swinging. Mainly because there is not another place like this one that I have found.

Again, just talking out loud for my benefit and suggestions if any feel the urge.

Vol