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I Know Something You Don't Know!
Mrs. CXXC and I have only been in the lifestyle a short time (1.5 years). Within this period, we have come to discover so many wonderful things about each other and our relationship. The most amazing discoveries are ones that have absolutely nothing to do with sex.
We look at life with a different set of eyes now. Where we would normally see some fun and a different situation, we now come face to face with great joy and adventures in every day life.
Something about the lifestyle has changed our specific view on the world within and without. It is our understanding that, as we walk, together, through each day, we come to know and understand more of what and who each other are.
Open and honest communication is the key. We were once happy to move about in our life, as a married couple, with little thought of sharing our inner self. We figured the other knew simply by being around enough and observing.
In this last three years, (That is how long we have been communicating openly) we have discovered so many interesting and thought provoking areas of each other. When entering a situation that had become common place in our lives, we now look to them as completely different as we are now seeing them through each others eyes and view point. Add our own thoughts and feelings to the mix and we start to get excited about the simplest things. Even grocery shopping has become more than just tolerable. Well, perhaps it is just the vegetable section.
We speak as often as possible about this situation or that scenario in an attempt to figure out what we do or do not like about them. We share our thoughts and feelings in ways never imagined by us before. It makes the mundane seem new and the new feel more exciting. Remember, we are no longer looking at life through old and experienced eyes. We are looking at it as a connected couple.
As for sex, we feel we have a leg up on the vanilla world. Imagine, if you will, the dinner table of your vanilla friends home. The couple discuss’ house and home, work and family with little or no passion. It is nothing new. They do this by rote. But what are they really thinking?
When she bends over to get veggies from the crisper, do you think he will voice his desire to just rip her clothes off and take her right then and there? I kind of doubt it.
When he is dressed sharply for a specific event, do you think she would voice her fantasy of tearing one off in the bathroom of the event? I don’t think so either.
The lifestyle has opened lines of communication between us that enable us to express our sexual thoughts, feelings, desires and fantasies freely. “Thought” expressions bring out the "Sexy Beast" in us and enable us to do things we would NEVER have imagined doing in a vanilla existence.
Do you think my wife would EVER flash her breasts at me while walking from the ocean to our beach chairs at our local beach before? HA HA HA!! Not on a bet.
Do you think I would have ever had the courage to point out a woman in the crowd and tell my wife that I found her attractive? More over, do you think my wife would ever have agreed with me before? You can always hear us laugh in that situation. Both of us checking out the ladies. What a blast. Makes the mall tolerable!
Just how many times do you look at a couple sitting in a restaurant and barely speaking to one another? Is the love gone? NO! It is there, but little excites them.
When you look at a couple, who are in the lifestyle, you often think they are newly married. Why? They talk, they hold hands, they are engaged in whatever activity they happen to be doing and they do it together.
As Mrs. CXXC and I walk through the store or at the park or just down our quiet street, we see other couples doing the very same thing. However, there is something missing in them. There is no spark in their eye. They are just doing what they always do, thinking thoughts that will go no further than their own minds.
It is in these times you will hear my wife's chipper voice chant, "I know something you don’t know!" As she skips along holding my hand searching for our next adventure!
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