Last August, Mrs. CXXC and I spent our vacation with a couple whom we met at a lifestyle resort just months prior. TO say that this couple is fantastic is an understatement akin to Noah saying, "It looks like rain!".

T is one of the most open, intelligent, passionate and fun loving men you will ever meet. He captured Mrs. CXXC's eye (among other body parts) the moment we met him.

K could be Mrs. CXXC's twin in virtually every way, Sexy, dynamic, adventurous, fun and very intelligent. The fact that they have the same body type and shape adds to the effect.

In our visit, we took in a concert together that was spectacular in so many ways. The music was timeless. The arena was a show of its own. However, what made the event most memorable would have to be our time together. The four of us had an outstanding evening.

During the concert, we sat with each others spouse. K was beside me, she beside Mrs. CXXC and T beside her. The crowd about us was enjoying the show almost as much as we were. K and I would exchange kisses and hugs as Mrs. CXXC and T copied us. To all around, we were just two very happy couples enjoying an evening out with friends.

Mrs. CXXC wanted to get a beer, so she and I went to the concession stand at the very back of the venue. While we were gone, K and T moved closer together and did what any husband and wife would do in a heightened state of arousal and excitement. They kissed like kids at prom night.

When we returned, we took our seats as we did before the beer run. T and K were laughing hysterically at something and we were forced to enquire what it was. In a whispered voice K informed us that the group behind us watched in amazement and even mentioned to each other, "OMG! They are cheating on their spouses!!"

We started laughing quite loudly. To think, they thought that T and Mrs. CXXC were married as K and I would be. It never occurred to us that this would be the assumption from others.

As the evening progressed, T and K left us for bathroom breaks or more beer. Mrs. CXXC and I played it cool for most of the event, not wanting to add fuel to the fire.

I heard a woman behind us ask her partner if she should "Say something!" Her partner said no. so, we were never approached with the new that our "Spouses were screwing around on us!" HA HA HA

T and K returned with beers all around. We cheered and enjoyed the concert. Laughter, music and great company had us all in high spirits.

It was at the 3/4 mark int he concert that I decided to mess with the people behind us. As I said, K and Mrs. CXXC could be twin sisters. They also happen to share the same desire for one another and often must be separated with either a crow bar or a bucket of cold water. Not that we have ever tried to do so, but they are very attracted to each other.

Having a Bi wife has great advantages. Having a Bi wife and being with a couple whose female is also Bi just makes the events that much more WONDERFUL!

I caught a glimpse of a disapproving individual behind us and decided to mess with them.

To K I said, "Plant one on Mrs. CXXC's lips when I leave." K smiled and told me to leave! No messing around with this lady! Trust me! I stand, walk to the end of the isle and look back to see the two ladies engaged in one hell of a kiss. Again, it was like high school kids at prom./ But the look on the faces of the people behind them was PRICELESS!!!!!

So engrossed was their audience, they did not even notice I was still at the end of the isle 25 feet away. I left for a beer, but returned quickly. T, K and Mrs. CXXC were singing and dancing tot he music again. All three, arm in arm.

As I moved along the isle, the people behind my group noticed me and a couple pointed. One lady had a look of pure pity upon her face. I had a huge smile upon my face as I returned to my seat. I mentioned the matter to K who passed the info on to Mrs. CXXC and T. The four of us were laughing about it for most of the night.

At no time did I kiss Mrs. CXXC during the concert. I wanted to keep the appearances going. I wanted to let these people have their little world as they created it. So, K and I held each toher and kissed gingerly throughout the rest of the concert. T and Mrs. CXXC did the same.

I could here the thoughts of the people behind us. "That poor bastard, his wife is having a three way with that other couple. He has no clue! Someone should tell him!"

I giggled. The thought was just too funny to me. Perhaps it was the beer.

The concert was ending. People were milling out from the stands and working their way to their vehicles. The group remained behind us all the way to the exit. It was then that I grabbed Mrs. CXXC, pulled her into me and kissed her passionately!

From a distance of approximately 20 feet I heard, "Did they just....?"

The rest of my group heard it as well. We all started laughing as we headed out the exit.

I tell this story only to illustrate a point I have come to realize. Vanilla people viewing those the lifestyle, only understand that it has to be someone’s fault. It cannot be an agreement among consenting adults to engage is activities "for couples only!" They need to justify it by saying that one of our group is weak and must let another in. They may even believe that one of us is being forced into the relationship.

They were convinced that there was an affair going on. Then, the affair included three of them. At last, I sealed the deal by kissing who they thought was HIS wife! OMG! SWINGERS!!!!

The look of pity upon that woman’s face toward me was earnest. I am certain she would not believe that I was a swinger but a victim. She most probably would refuse to believe that I had kissed Mrs. CXXC without seeing it herself. I doubt she did. So, there is a woman out there who witnessed what she thought was a wrong done to a stranger. She didn’t just jump to conclusions. She launched from a spring board.

Even if she had seen me kiss my own wife, do you think she would have recognized anything but lust? do you think she would have seen that the four of us were two couples engaged in a group sanctioned activity? Do you think that group of people would think anything good of us?

From their mouths, we heard nothing that could be interpreted as positive. All we heard was shear disdain toward the three of them for kissing.

What does this truly illustrate? It shows that we have a long way to go before our LIFESTYLE is accepted by the main stream. You may be a homosexual, lesbian or bi-sexual. society pretty much accepts this today without reservation. However, having more than one lover beyond your marriage vows is still taboo!

Did we flaunt our relationship that night, perhaps? Were the PDA’s a little over the top? Not really. What we did do, however, was share with them a visual tase of freedom from societal demands and pre-conceived notions. The 4 of us were happy! In fact, I would dare say we were much happier than they were.

What do you think? Have you been in a similar situation? What did you do? How did those aobut you react?