I know! I know! I said I would keep my blogs to two a week. Well, I can't help it if my mind thinks of these things and I am forced to write them down!

I was lying in bed last night thinking about our weekend plans. We have a really great couple in our little circle of friends. (They are actually all GREAT) We have come to truly enjoy spending our time and energies with them. Our plans are to do some sight seeing, dinner, drinks, music and naturally, sex. The beauty of having such great friends is that not all of the activities listed HAVE to happen. In fact, we have had dinners with several of our friends where nothing but dinner, drinks, music and laughter happened. Did it diminish the evening in the slightest? NOT ONE BIT!!!

As most of you know, we are a same room, couple, couple. We really enjoy seeing or hearing each other being pleased or pleasing. Something about it just clicks. It makes our engines run at higher RPMs. Each time we are with our playmates, we concentrate on them, yet keep a small portion of ourselves aware of each other. This is also a safety feature as well. If she is not happy, I fix it.

One particular evening comes to mind that best defines the enhancement I speak of. While on the same bed, Mrs. CXXC and I were engaged in passionate activities with our lovers. Both her male lover and I were lying on our backs, feet at the foot board. The ladies were straddling us. The ladies would lean into each other as they would glide up and down upon us and kiss each other etc. It was a truly wonderful feeling and a very erotic visual. Mrs. CXXC leaned forward, placing her hands upon her lover’s chest as her orgasm would grip her. In the very middle of her orgasm, she looked into my eyes and moaned, “I LOVE YOU!”

I am not an emotional person by any stretch of the imagination. Most times, people get pissed off that I seem too dispassionate about personal matters. HOWEVER, this got me. My heart swelled. I felt, in that moment more connected with my wife than ever. It did not matter that she was riding another man just inches beside me. I nearly lost all thought about the woman riding me as well.

As Mrs. CXXC screamed to the heavens in orgasmic bliss, her body fell, quivering, on top of her lover. My lover caressed her back as she continued to ride me. My hand reached out lovingly to my wife’s. I held her hand until, finally, I too had climaxed. Both of our lovers smiled at us during and after. They too could feel the love between us and, according to them it made them feel very special that we could share that as well as feeling more in love themselves.

What we take from the lifestyle is actually the gift of passion for and with each other. For some it is a simple matter of sex for sex. It is a pure numbers game to them. Chalk one more off, one more notch in the bed post etc… For us and the people we have shared both ours and their beds with, it is more. We have a fondness for one another that becomes a friendship and then a bond. The physical act itself is actually a bonus but not a necessity. We have discovered within our marriage, the ability to give freely of ourselves to each other and our playmates something greater than ourselves. We chose our partners carefully and expect that they do the same.

Do we feel this overwhelming love for one another each and every time we play? Yes and no. Sometimes, we play just to have fun with our friends. Sometimes we play for the excitement of the newness of another. However, as we prefer to play in the same room with other couples, the moments that we look to each other transmit those very same feelings of heightened love and absolute connectedness.

I can recall only one event in our history where we did not have sex together while playing with our partners. It is not out of jealousy or fear of being disconnected that we do this. We simply enjoy being together and watching the passion of another couple who is united as we are. Eventually our desire to please the others takes hold and we are again, with them. But, when the dust (lust) settles, we find ourselves back in our own bed, having what we call re-connect sex. This is the most passionate and emotionally intense love making we have ever experienced in our lives.

I lay upon her, feeling her breath mingle with my own. Our hearts beat a united rhythm as we engage in our passionate dance. We look deeply into each others eyes; profess our deep and total love for one another. It is at the end of these sessions that we hold each other lovingly, passionately, sweetly. It is in these resting moments that we realize we are blessed with Something VERY Special.