Dave and I were sitting in the hot tub last night talking about our three years swinging. We talked of our million rules that we started out with and now they're gone, thankfully. We decided how foolish the no kissing rule really was. We joked how insecure I was when we started that I'm surprised that I let Dave touch another woman. How scared I was to let him explore his desires because he might find someone better. It seems all so silly now. The first time we played with a couple, those rules went out the window. I discovered how deep our love, respect and trust really was.

We talked of the couples that we've played with and would we play with them again, what we liked about them, what we'd change in the future and people who are in our clique with the M&G's and the parties we go to. We believe we've been darn lucky in whom we play with. The couples we've played with were all compatible and we've remained good friends. Our single male who left swinging to find a single female has come back to the swinging world. Unfortunately for him, it didn't work out.

We talked about the recent emails that we've gotten hoping to hook up at the M&G tonight. We're amazed that we find it so easy to hook up with another couple without drama and where all four of us really enjoy each others company.

Sure, there are things we'd change, but mostly, not. Maybe if we could change one thing, we'd have started this sooner. I don't know if our marriage would have survived it, however.

We're grateful we've been so close and that really there isn't anything we can't talk about.

I'm just rambling out loud, as I've been known to do.