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Time off so soon...

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NCfuncouple98

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We have had such a good time since we entered the lifestyle last Augus. And even though we definitely still consider ourselves "Newbies", we have come so far! The communication between us, the openness, it has just been amazing!!!

 

And then life just sometimes gets in the way. I had to have an outpatient surgery last week, nothing major, but it does involve a biopsy that we won't have results on for a couple of weeks, so we're already taking a break, just as we were really getting started! :sad:

 

Hopefully just another 2 weeks or so and we can get back in the "swing" of things, but my personal stress of the surgery for the 2 weeks leading up to it, and then no sex for 2 weeks after, really put a damper on the sex life AND relationship we had built up for the last 8 months! And a situation like that does cause you to pull away from each other a bit, not wanting to be a tease when you can't follow through, you know...

 

So we're rebuilding, but hoping that we come out of this even stronger.

 

Just needed to vent and put it all out there. We're going to try and go to the club next Sunday, afternoon pool and Nascar party, but honestly we'l still be reconnecting with each other, so we aren't really looking for anything. Although, if the right person/persons comes along . . . .:facelick:

 

At least through this board we are living fantasies through everyone else' reality at the moment. But we'll work our way back in!

 

Mrs. NC

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Hey, been there, done that... had surgery in Feb that put me out of action for a month... or SHOULD have been a month and I jumped the gun jumping back in... bad move. Although a bit of a break can make it even hotter when you do start again... anticipation heightens the pleasure. Also, the social aspect of the lifestyle is just so much fun... aren't they just the greatest people to hang out with? Even if you don't end up in bed with them?

 

Good luck with the medical issues! I know that when I was laid up, Mr PB was the most attentive nurse I could have asked for. I'm sure you'll be treated just as well- although it sounds like you're more ambulatory than I was :)

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Yes, PB, Mr. NC has been amazing as always. I don't know where he gets his patience! But he has taken very good care of me!

 

Lusty - yes, we know they'll be there. It just sucks when you have momentum going, true with anything in life, and you hit a roadblock. We're not worried about it though.

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You know the old saying; "Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans."

 

Do yourself a favor - don't dwell on it. Whether you realize it or not, you're already getting back into the swing of things. When the time is right, you'll be back in the pool hip deep, and splashing with everyone else as if nothing ever happened. Right now you need to take care of yourself and heal - that just takes time.

 

As far as your medical concerns go, we wish you the best, and we hope everything turns out well.

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