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What to Wear? What to Wear?
Like so many others in the lifestyle, Mrs. CXXC has a section in her closet expressly for events and activities within the lifestyle. This section may be fairly large but due to the nature and makeup of the material, it takes up a VERY small portion of her closet. Our philosophy on the “lifestyle wear” is, if you cant pull it through my wedding ring, it is too much fabric! The only items in her “lifestyle wear” of any true substance would be her shoes.
My section of lifestyle wear, unfortunately, is not as grand. In fact, I would be likely to guess that most men have very little in the line of “Lifestyle Wear” for themselves. Sure, we have silk boxers, perhaps a comical thong or two, bath robes and even mesh pants or shirts. What we are afforded is quite limited, however. I have several beach outfits made of linen, flax and cotton that look more like PJ’s than club wear. However, when worn to an event, the pass fairly well.
I am not looking to add to my closet but would like to see more items available for men to wear in lifestyle events. Ladies are most always dressed Hotter than 5 alarm chili. Men simply don pants and dress shirts at most occasions. Do women truly find the selection men have available to them sexy? Are they content with the “Club ware” afforded us?
Mrs. CXXC thinks a suit and tie are sexy as hell! However, what would other ladies think of a man in a suit at a lifestyle event?
I also understand that it is not just the clothes but the way they are worn. You can wear a $5000.00 suit and still look like a bum. It is all about the accessories, the grooming and carriage! No matter what a man wears, he must wear it well. So, with that understanding, what can a man wear to a lifestyle event that makes him look sexy or appealing to the ladies?
I enjoy themed events as they take some of the issue away by enabling us to follow a specific dress code. I have more Hawaiian shirts and shorts for the luaus than a man should ever have. I even have a lime green leisure suit for 70’s nights. Cargo pants and a Sex Pistols T-shirt for 80’s nights, S&M wear, Angel/Devil wear (Complete with horns and a tail or wings if needed), In fact, I have nearly as many costumes as I do suits. Come Halloween, I am never at a loss for a costume. My favorite costume is a pair of roller skates and a smile. (Pull toy) But what does a guy wear for the standard lifestyle event?
Mrs. CXXC will hem and haw, ponder, fret and stress over her outfit for an event.
“Honey, does this look sluty enough?”
“Is this a little TOO over the top?”
“Should the tops of my nipples show or not?”
“Does this make my ass look too big?” (Be careful answering that one)
When I am dressed (it really only takes me 20 minutes to get ready and that is if I shave my head REALLY close) I stand before her and say, “What do you think?”
Mrs. CXXC will generally correct any issues but by and large, my selection is so limited, there is little discussion or question. Her average response is, “You look great!” and she is back to fretting or messing with something else on her outfit.
For all the ladies out there, My question would have to be, what would you like to see men dressed in for lifestyle events? It is not like we want to complicate our lives by stressing over our attire but it would be nice to once-in-a-while say to my closet, “What to wear? What to wear?”
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