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I'm so lucky!
This posting may seem a little too sweet for some. It may appear like I am bragging. To others, it may be taken at its face value.
I posted a few comments on a topic questioning how we rate our relationships. My answers drew some nice comments and made me feel the necessity to explain a few things about me and my deep love for Mrs. CXXC.
People often stare at me in disbelief when I tell them how I feel toward my wife. Most find it impossible to believe any man could hold such reverence and passion for another individual. They look at me with doubt and even a hint of jealousy. It seems to be beyond them to understand the depths of my love and adoration.
I live by the rule, “You get what you give!”
I give Mrs. CXXC my unconditional love and receive the same. The more I love her, show her, tell her and LIVE my words with her, the more I am given in return.
In truth, there is nothing that I would not do for Mrs. CXXC. “I would Die for you!” is easy. “I will live for you!” is very difficult. Granted, if the choice of life were for her or me, I would naturally give my own. But it is in living that I am able to make my true meaning known.
Each night, I place my hand upon her sleeping form and say a prayer of thanks for having her in my life. She is the last thought I have before I drift off to sleep. Each morning, she wakes me with a smile and a much needed cup of coffee. Again, I close my eyes and pray THANKS for this wonderful gift! Through out the day my walking prayers are filled, again, with thanks for all I have been given. More importantly, I am equally thankful for and to the woman who so willingly elects to walk with me each day through this adventure called life.
One day, so many years ago, I saw an angel walking toward me. From that moment on, the world about her glows brighter. My life is enriched further. Her light makes the path easier to navigate. AND SHE LETS ME WALK WITH HER!!!
In our meager beginnings, we spent most of our days dreaming of a future like we have today. However, we never lost sight of what is really important. If we lost all of our worldly possessions, we would have the one thing that mattered to us most. We would have each other. Today, we stand testament to those feelings as we have a stronger bond in that knowledge.
Do I dote upon her? YES! Do I spoil her? I most certainly do! Her birthday is a legal holiday. I throw large parties each year in honor of the most wonderful creature in all of creation. Live bands, food, drink, fun and friends fill the day. It is only fitting that someone so special should be recognized. She is, after all, the sun around which I orbit.
Have you ever thought to give flowers to your loved one for no reason at all? Has a bouquet of Balloons on April 9th (no special day at all to us) ever been a thought? What do you do for Valentine’s Day? ME? I give her a wonderful gift but the celebration is different for us. We celebrate “The 14 days of Valentine’s”. Each day in that two week period, I give her a gift. It may be as simple as a card. It can be a CD of her favorite songs. Between each song, I record my voice reading her Favorite poems or verses declaring my adoration. Candies, stuffed animals or little trinkets that will most assuredly end up in the trash mark each day of the 14 days of Valentine’s. Each day is marked with my impassioned declaration of absolute love and adoration.
I send her on scavenger hunts, equipped with puzzles to solve and pleasures to uncover. The day is spent in fun, her closest friends, relaxation and gifts.
3 or 4 massages a year, spa treatments every month, bathing her when she is tired, foot rubs after a long day, and the all time favorite kiss and hug when she walks through the door make my desire to please her known.
I am Mrs. CXXC’s enabler. I encourage her in her pursuits. I push her to make the most of her talents and abilities. I am her biggest fan. I am her fan club president. But not only that, I am her customer. She simply does it for me!
The lifestyle is even more about her than it is me. Certainly, I get to have fun and enjoy myself. It would be wrong for me to believe that I should not take pleasure from it. However, I find that the lifestyle suits Mrs. CXXC most. It is when she is being pleased by her lover(s) that I feel another message of my commitment is shown. As she is being taken to heights of passion and pleasure that I may or may not be capable of, I take to heart the knowledge that when she is sated, there will be a bonding, shortly thereafter; between us, that transcends the normal bonds of marriage.
In our marriage bed, although it has been shared by others, we lay entwined, holding dearly to the love, passion, and joy we share.
I once read that before the gods of man, there were the titans. These beings, all powerful and knowing created a creature to please them. This creature was complete and whole. They were happy in their wholeness and wanted for nothing as they were complete within themselves.
The titans became jealous of their own creation and sent bolts of lightening down upon them, cleaving them twain. They cast them about the globe to further the now separated creatures misery. From that day forth, these two halves of a whole searched the globe for each other. Over the eons, few have ever met and become whole.
Mrs. CXXC is my other half. In our union, she has made me complete. Her feelings are my feelings. Her joys are my own. Although in separate bodies, I am able to empathize with her. I feel her fears, pleasure, sadness, joy, passion, pleasure, frustrations and pains. More importantly, together, we are capable of turning each of these into a good and wonderful experience by simply sharing them.
I write this blog, not in bragging but in explanation of whom and what Mrs. CXXC is to me. I post the ideas and gifts I offer to Mrs. CXXC as a way of sharing with the community, enabling those herein to take and use them as their own. We share with each other on this board so many wonderful ideas on how to sexually satisfy, it is only fitting that we share our activities and expressions of love. We can only make our relationships stronger in the sharing.
So, take this very second. Look to your mate. Look deeply into their eyes and know that within them you can see a connection, a oneness, a completion of yourself that would otherwise not be there. In that one person, you are blessed, loved and most importantly WHOLE!
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