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Dave and I are meeting up with two friends tomorrow night. Neither are not married, but occasionally play as a couple. He is J and she is L. They also play apart. The last time we got together with these two was about a year ago, but there was also another married couple there.

 

We played a little strip pool, and J went to one room with the other married woman, Dave and the L were "getting along" on the couch near the pool table and the other married guy and I went upstairs. This was almost a breech of our rules of playing only together. I called out to Dave that night and told him (more like a warning) that I was leaving the room with the other guy and that we would be upstairs in the J's bedroom. Dave acknowledged that he heard us and it wasn't long (maybe 2 minutes) before Dave and L were right beside us wanting in on the play. It was her idea because she wanted a little girl/girl action which I was more than happy to partake in. :)

 

So, this morning, I asked Dave, "What if J and L want to do separate rooms?" Dave comes back with, "Oh, I bet they'll want to play together". It didn't answer my question. I told him he was evading the original question, and he then again went on another avenue of evading. "Dave, answer the question -- what if they want to do separate rooms for a little while?" So he looks at me. "What would you do?" Again, "Dave, what is your reaction going to be if they want to go to separate rooms?"

 

Finally, he says, "I guess I'd go. We know them, we trust them. I trust him with you, but I know she'll want to play with you, too!!"

 

Well, I definitely don't mind playing with her. She is most certainly NOT a dead fish. I've never played with J, but we have been to many parties and M&G's with him to know him very well. Dave, I know is very excited by the thought of being with her tomorrow. I have to admit that I'm pretty excited, as well, to be with J. I'm also excited that I get to play with her, again. ;)

 

I have no idea if it's really going to happen that way, but wanted to make sure Dave was OK with it in case J dragged me off one way and L dragged Dave off in the opposite direction. :) Yeah, like she'd have to drag him... He'd follow her like a puppy dog. :lol:

 

I actually think it will give Dave an opportunity to give L his total attention. She deserves his total attention. It might be more fun than he imagined. I'm obviously very open to the idea of separate rooms, but only if Dave is comfortable with that. I guess, we'll see how this plays out. LOL

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Have a great time! I hope you are both relaxed and don't worry about a thing. Mr. Fuse and I enjoy separate rooms with people we trust. We understand it's not everyone's cup of tea, but we think it's a different way of playing that provides a different and more focused experience. Whatever happens or doesn't happen, I hope you post about it! Carpe Diem!

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Thanks, The Fuse. A new step for us in our swinging life. If it leads to separate rooms, at least I know he's willing. :)

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JoAnn and I have learned that not-married couples are more likely to cause trouble than married couples. But the nature of this trouble has never been an unmarried person developing an inappropriate attachment to one of us, which I will assume is the concern upon which your rule of no "separate room" is based.

 

Anyway, I'm reading that you have examined this closely. I think this will be good for both of you. I'm sure I don't have to tell you. Girls like "total attention".

 

~Michale

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These two people are the greatest two people ever. Even though they aren't married, they are honest and forthcoming with everything they do and say. We've had the same room rule since our inception of swinging. It's more of a safety issue, and then there is the joy of "me watching him" and vise-versa enjoying another person and I get to enjoy her too, kinda thing. :) It turns out it didn't turn into a separate room thing. We all had a great time. In fact, we were having so much fun, we didn't even make it to the play pool. I do know in the future though, that if it leads to separate rooms, Dave will be OK with it.

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Ya know Fun4d's... I'm actually thinking he might be open to it any time. It's not a matter of trust between us, either. We trust each other implicitly. Just like you and Mrs. Fun.

 

I know he loves to have me in the same room because he's always reaching over, touching, kissing me... Plus, if his partner is bi, we might get to play with each other. But, I think if the mood was right, he'd consider it.

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