Dave and I are meeting up with two friends tomorrow night. Neither are not married, but occasionally play as a couple. He is J and she is L. They also play apart. The last time we got together with these two was about a year ago, but there was also another married couple there.

We played a little strip pool, and J went to one room with the other married woman, Dave and the L were "getting along" on the couch near the pool table and the other married guy and I went upstairs. This was almost a breech of our rules of playing only together. I called out to Dave that night and told him (more like a warning) that I was leaving the room with the other guy and that we would be upstairs in the J's bedroom. Dave acknowledged that he heard us and it wasn't long (maybe 2 minutes) before Dave and L were right beside us wanting in on the play. It was her idea because she wanted a little girl/girl action which I was more than happy to partake in.

So, this morning, I asked Dave, "What if J and L want to do separate rooms?" Dave comes back with, "Oh, I bet they'll want to play together". It didn't answer my question. I told him he was evading the original question, and he then again went on another avenue of evading. "Dave, answer the question -- what if they want to do separate rooms for a little while?" So he looks at me. "What would you do?" Again, "Dave, what is your reaction going to be if they want to go to separate rooms?"

Finally, he says, "I guess I'd go. We know them, we trust them. I trust him with you, but I know she'll want to play with you, too!!"

Well, I definitely don't mind playing with her. She is most certainly NOT a dead fish. I've never played with J, but we have been to many parties and M&G's with him to know him very well. Dave, I know is very excited by the thought of being with her tomorrow. I have to admit that I'm pretty excited, as well, to be with J. I'm also excited that I get to play with her, again.

I have no idea if it's really going to happen that way, but wanted to make sure Dave was OK with it in case J dragged me off one way and L dragged Dave off in the opposite direction. Yeah, like she'd have to drag him... He'd follow her like a puppy dog.

I actually think it will give Dave an opportunity to give L his total attention. She deserves his total attention. It might be more fun than he imagined. I'm obviously very open to the idea of separate rooms, but only if Dave is comfortable with that. I guess, we'll see how this plays out. LOL