If you happened to see my other two "Anticipation" blog entries, you might remember that we still had a date with couple #2 last Saturday night. Well, the date was all that we were hoping and more, especially for Mr. Fuse. In case you don't know from my other posts, Mr. Fuse is usually the one who doesn't make connections easily. In the case of this couple, his connection with her was pretty immediate. She is something of a "perfect storm" playmate. Actually, their personalities are somewhat like ours: she is very interactive and welcoming. He is friendly and anxious for things to go well, but seems worried that things will go wrong. He is somewhat reserved and it takes more of an effort to reach a rapport with him. But he is thoughtful and concerned. Once he showed me some of the things he'd created (being deliberately vague here), I was even more convinced.

Anyway, his wife is absolutely beautiful in a blonde surfer-skater-turned-model sort of way, with a thin, gracefully curvy body and smallish breasts that point up (lucky her). She obviously likes Mr. Fuse and had that look in her eyes like she could hardly wait. They had been flirting via text the whole week. That's a new one on us, since he's (again) usually kind of in the background while I handle all that stuff. Good for him. I really enjoy the idea that he is growing and expanding his playbook. He was buzzing with anticipation. I was also looking forward to playing, because I like Mr. Playmate and was hoping things would work out. He has a masculine face and a very firm, muscular body. They both swim now, and he is former champion sprinter in the armed forces where they hail from.

This couple had told us about their one other real experience with another couple. They were feeling mildly positive about it, but they had also felt it was a bit abrupt for them. Mr. Playmate had had problems because he felt overloaded, and felt the woman had gone straight for his privates and expected him to be instantly ready, and also found it difficult to concentrate on what he was doing while his wife was playing right there. We had suggested they might like separate rooms. They did like this idea and seemed fine with it, which is another big plus for me. I was really hoping he would have a good experience, because it would make me feel good to show him he could have a great time and not worry.

Anyway, our friends seemed to be feeling a little more comfortable and immediately after dinner (at their house), Mr. Fuse and she were already starting to kiss. This is another role reversal for us, because usually it is left up to me to get things started. Mr. Playmate just looked at me, still not quite ready to make a move. I had been sitting on a stool with my legs sort of intertwined with his, so I slowly got up and leaned in. We had a nice, slow buildup while he seemed to be assessing his own comfort level. I liked it, because again it is gratifying to be a part of someone figuring out their ability to have a good time, like the proverbial caterpillar peeking out of his cocoon. I've been with guys where we both have the please-god-we-must-fuck-right-now-or-I'll-explode sort of first experience too, and the variety is so delicious.

So Mr. Playmate and I went into their bedroom, and Mr. Fuse and his wife disappeared upstairs. They seemed to go straight to being very comfortable doing things a lot of swingers aren't comfortable with, and just sort of knowing things a lot of people take time to figure out or stress over. For one thing, he took to separate rooms immediately. It seemed to just work for him. Also, after we played, we all kind of naturally went to check on our spouses without making a big deal of it. No worrying what the others will think... just a natural impulse to have a few minutes with your loved one to talk freely and grin at each other.

They also, most surprisingly, were happy with the idea of "sleep-swapping". Our sexual tastes were really lining up, which is part of why sleep-swapping is appealing. Mr. Fuse and I had discussed it before our date. In the past I've been more into that than he has, but with this woman he of course wanted to. Both couples had sex again in the middle of the night and then again in the morning. I love that and it is so great to find others who do too. Even though I don't have quite the connection with Mr. Playmate that I might like, at least not yet, these things are big big plusses. And our play was really good. I was insanely wet the first time. In the middle of the night I had a little trouble (still enjoyed it though) but by the morning that was not a factor at all. He had a nice Father's Day morning fuck... laid there happy and looked up at me while I rocked my G-spot onto him. {grin}

In the morning they made breakfast. What great hosts. I could see that they were itching to be alone together, which is completely natural and expected. They seemed like they wanted to talk and make sure everything was still cool. We left and are talking about getting together again, though travel will make us wait a little while. I'll tell you what, though, I was so drowsy driving home that I probably shouldn't have been on the road. I didn't nod off or anything, but still. We both napped yesterday and had that "swinging hangover". Mr. Fuse is completely spoiled now. We'll see whether he gives anyone else a fair chance :-).

Well, this entry is already too long, so I'll stop. Thanks for reading if you've gotten this far!