I think that is the very reason that I trust you to do some of the "legwork" for us newbies. This site makes me feel like I have a whole new bunch of people that care about us and pass along good information and advice. I've looked at some of the other sites too and they scare you. This one feels like home. Thanks Julie:)

Do you think it's an age thing? Think back about 30 years ago. Single men were referred to as swingers. It was so weird that I was watching a Don Knotts movie (The Love God) and they referred to him in there as a swinger because he was single and available dating a reverend's daughter.

It's so obvious that my idea of a swinger is not a single man looking for a single woman.

I know that was Stoooopid, but it was just a thought.

I think from what I see allot of singles after the Austin Powers movies consider themselves.... swingers.

I dont promote our lifestyle at work, but lets face it I have one hell of a list of work friends. 60% single males. I do hear it allot at work, how playing the vanilla bars or strip clubs its more presumed that they are swingers.