Tech and I have been facing some communication issues. All the issues we have had lately seem to revolve around that. And we've been struggling to find a way for each of us to change to facilitate better communication.

Today, my oldest son, gave his mom advice. I didn't particularly get why he'd give me this advice and I'll be honest and say that I didn't really like the advice he gave either.

When I asked why he'd tell me that, he told me that it is what I always taught him to do.

Well, shit. He actually listened to me?

And as I thought on it and thought on it, it wasn't the worst advice I'd ever been given and thinking about it lead me to add to it a bit. And I think that eventually, Tech and I will get this resolved. And I was about to the point I thought we wouldn't ever resolve it.

Imagine that...your own child helping you in your relationship with the man you love....and it isn't his father to whom you are still married.

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