NDN and I went last Sat. night to the swingers club that we're members of and all in all we had a fun night. He shot pool for awhile while i relaxed in one of the hot tubs. I always find that my stress from the work week always seems to go away after some time in the hot tub. I talked for a bit with a couple that has been coming there for awhile. The husband told me that I'm exactly his type and that he loves how I don't put myself out on display. That I act like a lady. He was curious as to why he's never seen me playing with anyone except NDN because he was very interested in playing with me. I could tell he was disappointed when i told him that I'm monogamous but he was very respectful of it and didn't try to press me or put me down as another couple had in the past by calling me a prude. I was glad to have that respect.

NDN had a night of being the center of attention. Sitting outside with a group of friends (mostly women), the conversation went to that of piercings. A friend of ours mentioned that NDN's penis is pierced and so of course all the women at the table wanted to see it. He loves being able to show it off so he gladly dropped his pants, lol. He had about 5 women caressing it and one licking the head of it. I could tell he was in heaven! All that evening he'd had a woman who was showing quite an interest in him. She was sitting beside him now and while he was showing off his ring she leaned toward me and asked if i felt the ring while he would be inside me. I answered her honestly that i really couldn't feel it. She said she wanted to find out for herself and asked me if she could do him. I felt a slight pang in my stomach but i told her that i didn't mind but that it was up to him. He seemed to take an interest but didn't say yes or no. He said he needed to take a quick trip to the bathroom as did I, so we went to the bathroom. I was heading back outside but he grabbed my hand and said he was ready to go to the playroom and have some fun and was I ready. All I could say was "you mean with me?" He looked a bit surprised and was like "who else am i going to have fun with". I mentioned that I'd thought he'd taken an interest in the woman who wanted to be with him. He said maybe another time, that tonight he wanted to be with the woman he loves. My heart skipped a few beats after he said that and even now typing it down and get a fluttery feeling in my heart. I know that he really wants to play and I know that eventually he will, but It made me feel so good and so special that he passed up being with another so that he could be with me. I think the more he does things like that the more secure I'll be with his desire to play. I guess all I've wanted is to know that I'm #1 in his book. I sure felt like it Sat night!