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We've been swinging for close to a year and have had a lot of fun. This month we had some travel plans for swinging as well as a few play dates set...

 

Unfortunately my wife was injured recently so we had to put all of that on hold :( And I realize this is not a unique situation, it happens all of the time, but she's really bummed out.

 

She requires surgery in the coming weeks (nothing life threatening) which will prolong our break from the lifestyle for a number of months. Of course her health comes before everything, but recess is over for awhile and back to class (normal life).

 

We notified people we had scheduled some time with, people we had planned to meet while traveling and people we have exchanged emails, but have yet to schedule a meeting.

 

We were really touched by the outpouring of support, offers to help, and offers to just meet socially. When we started swinging we had a friends first/play later mindset. We soon learned it's easier to switch that, play first and see what develops. I think the friends part has developed well!

 

So while we have hit a small bump in the road, it looks like when it's time to get back into the swing of things our friends will be there waiting :)

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We wish Mrsxploring , a speedy recovery.

 

You know, we found swingers to be more supportive than any of our civilian friends. Especially with some changes Mrsfun experienced.

 

Funny thing is we had over our entire lives, been there emotionally as well as physically for those civilian friends.

 

Then in a time of need, they just weren't there..... Not a phone call, not even a card after all we had done. I called on some of those "friends" and e mailed.

 

Our swinger friends (locally) even came to the hospital.

 

We hope you have good friends :cool: Good luck with surgery :)

 

Keep us posted

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We have to echo the rest of the crowd! Hope that all goes smoothly and Mrs. exploringRM has a swift recovery!

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Thanks for the well wishes! We did make it out a bit this past weekend, sort of a last hurrah for awhile..a somewhat calm hurrah.

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[update: Surgery over, wife recuperating. Things are going very well from a medical standpoint. She asked me tonight when the next house party is, lol. We're invited to a NYE party so that may be the next one until we see if she's up for some play before that.

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