You may get more response in the forums rather than in the blog area. (I don't have any advice beyond that )

Could your Husband do the asking ?

With your approval of coarse, of who he is asking to begin with...

Any ideas on him doing the asking? as far as approaching someone. We dont want to offend anyone who's not into it, u know??

Are you trying to ask men from a vanillia setting to do this? I am not sure I would even attempt that because there are so many other things to consider with this. If it were me, I would be seeking these men via Swing Lifestyle or some other swing site. Single men are a dime a dozen on these sites. They are there for sex, threesomes, moresomes, what more can you ask for? There are plenty of respectable, experienced singles online, you just have to weed through the others to find them. Look through profiles, chat online with a few, see how it goes. Meet them for drinks. Just because you contact them doesnt mean your obligated to have sex with them.

Good luck!