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Been a year and also back in gear...

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exploringRM

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I had previously blogged than an injury had sidelines us. We seem to be moving past that, wife is recovering well. Still not quite ready to play with others, but we have been hanging at a few M&Gs this past week. I can tell she is feeling better as she asked what are doing this weekend (nothing) and she wants to go to the swing club..wohoo!

 

It's also been a year since we ventured into the lifestyle. We were looking a back at our first month last November and actually realized we were pretty busy. Our first planned meeting was cancelled at the last minute (kid issues with other couple) so we hit one of the local clubs. We went for several weekends before we had our first experience, but met a couple there and had fun! And looking back at this week, we had our first planned meet with a couple from an online contact a year ago last night, wed before thanksgiving (same couple that cancelled in the prev sentence). That was not a great experience, don't think the woman was into it. We eventually setup another meeting with them at a local swing club, but they cancelled and we wrote them off.

 

To end that week we met our second couple at a bar. It was a last minute thing, they contacted us online and invited us out. Very attractive and 15 years younger than us..and we had fun at their place after! Then saturday we met another couple at a local swing club. We had a good time with them as well.

 

I often say we jumped in to swinging with both feet, eyes wide open. Thinking back I think that fits!

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Best of everything to you. I hope you find more great experiences, and that your wife continues to feel better!

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I often say we jumped in to swinging with both feet, eyes wide open.
It's the way to do it, for sure.

 

Pleased to read that her recovery is progressing well.

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First, and foremost, congratulations!

 

Second, good to hear the wife is doing well!

 

Third, curiosity struck, so I looked up join dates. 1 week (7 days) between us. Just goes to show the speed differences there can be between two couples.

 

Once more, congrats, and hopefully, many further positive, fun, experiences for you and the wife!

 

Jason

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Glad to hear Mrs.exploringRM is up and getting around :cool:

 

Looking back... Yea, we can understand that.

 

Going to the club, or at least wanting to this weekend...

 

A wohoo, is always good to hear :)

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fun4Ds..perhaps the club on Saturday, I'm finishing up with a cold so perhaps not a good time to go..see how I feel tomorrow.

 

jason - every couple is different. I don't recall (or if I ever knew) your age range, ours is close to 50 and we've always been a little on the wild side (just a little). Both love to go out, I played in a rock band, had a very soft swap experience 2 like 25 years ago..so we (I feel) were in a much different place than you and your wife. 2 years ago, I never even considered swinging, had no idea it existed as it does.

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Exploring, we're early 40's (her,) nearly 40 (me) Both being the eldest children, I think we got a bit shafted on having wild times. We're both very responsible, and I know I was (mostly) as a teen. My comment wasn't meant to be a groan, just a reflection on the differing speeds couples move through and into swinging.

 

Good luck on getting back into the "swing" of things...

;-)

 

Jason

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