Last week, I started a poll about this topic to see where others stand regarding “sexting”. https://www.swingersboard.com/forums/topic/36908-sexting-not-just-for-school-students-anymore/

Well, the numbers seem to favor the practice. For various reasons, individuals and couples are enjoying the ability to instantly share their passionate desires, wishes, thoughts and fantasies. It has become another medium with which to share our lifestyle.

I am taking a guess here, but I am going to assume (EEK! Did I really do that?) that more women receive “Sexts” than send. I know, based upon personal experience, that Mrs. CXXC receives FAR MORE sexts from boy toys, couples and myself than she sends. Photos, sexy jokes, videos and the like fill her in box daily! Let me tell you, these people would put Tiger to shame!

It has become an issue to some extent in that last month alone, she went over the accounts set number of texts by 243. At .10 a text over the allotted 400, (These are individuals not using the same carrier we are on) you can see why I even began to notice. The bill was uncharacteristically larger than normal. So, what does any loving, self respecting tight wad do? Pay the extra $15.00 a month for her line to have UNLIMITED Texts! Problem solved!

I have just recently been able to send photos in MMS. Ya gotta love the iPhone. All those lovely abilities without the basics. However, once I was able to send them, I did! Yes, you know the ones I am talking about! The photo of my erect penis with some quick blurb or sort telling her that I am thinking of her or how excited I am to be with her at such and such a date and time…. Blah Blah Blah! All pretty simple and straight forward!

She has shown me some of the pictures her “friends” have sent. They are pretty much the same. Yet, she never tires of them. She has one or two stock images of herself (of an equal subject matter) which she sends back in reply. She will occasionally read the sexts to me as they come in, which happens at all hours of the day and night! Her replies are just as sexually driven as the sender’s. Sexual banter flies through the airwaves! It’s a wonderful thing, technology!

I have discovered these sexts have a wonderful effect on Mrs. CXXC. When she receives them, they cause her to think about sex with the sender. When she is unable to connect with the sender in person, her desire grows more and more until she is ready to pop. I particularly enjoy this as she becomes quite passionate and virtually animalistic when we have the time to be together. The build-up, the anticipation, the constant reminders of sex, all add to her pleasure. Men and women remind her, through sexts, that she is sexy, pretty, fun and most of all, desired. Yep! Fulfilling the most difficult and top of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs!

As I don’t receive many of them form anyone in particular, my levels or arousal are static. Well, as any man, I generally want to have sex most of the time. But, I don’t suffer the same situation that Mrs. CXXC has! However, on the rare occasion that I do receive a sext, I must force myself to get my head back into the game, or whatever it was I happen to be doing at the time!

As I said earlier, I have sent naughty little texts to Mrs. CXXC on many occasions. I have also sent photos to her for her enjoyment. She does love them and encourages me to do so. I will say one thing, it helps a man’s ego, greatly, to discover that the picture of his erect penis is undeliverable when the bounce back message reads, “File to Large!”