Holy Shit!! Look at those sexy eyes staring back at me!!! And the way her hips sway when she walks across the room... Her long dark shimmering hair and gossamer mini-dress ambush my imagination. I quickly become convinced of the overwhelming probability we can make some incredible smiles together. Periscope UP (three eyes are always better than two). Have I seen her before,, somewhere? She looks a little familiar, but not quite registering in my memory. The way she stares at me means either I have condom wrapper stuck on my shoe or she has some interest in me too. I see a faint lipstick stain on her wine glass and her string of pearls contrasts deliciously with the smooth, tanned skin of her cleavage. I read her body language and wonder if she likes it slow and comfortable or maybe break-the-bed rodeo sex.

I introduce myself and offer my services for her sexual entertainment and the hopes of getting to know each other better. Her voice is soft and sweet, her words reflect compassion and intelligence. I feel a warmth when I touch her arm and my fingers delight in the texture of her muscle definition. She smiles and politely declines my offer and suggests we check in with each other later in the evening.

On the one hand, one way chemistry or being someone's "plan B" invokes a certain frustration. But it's also an opportunity to enjoy the sexual tension and feel the excitement of lusty attraction in a way that's seldom mentioned in a positive light. I enjoyed the thrill of imagining her and me tangled in sweaty, grunty, room spinning sexual congress. I enjoyed my feeling of desire for her, and knowing the desire was conveyed in a healthy and respectful manner. I think there's a reasonable probability that my display of desire for her gave her a little thrill too.

I had my sexual thrill at the party, and my wife had hers. When we reconnected after the party it was a special event for both of us. We love the way sex parties remind us to really appreciate our exceptional relationship. We enjoy the freedom to openly express sexual desire for other folks and acknowledge their reciprocal desire for us.

It is in the little thrills, that we find an interesting value in swinging. And, when they happen, the big thrills are nice too.