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I've just been molested...

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...by Jeff. And it was HOT! :facelick:

 

On Sunday we had for lack of a more colorful term a bitch session about events of the weekend and how things could have been better handled (it was this thread).

 

Well a part of my discontent and reasoning for not wanting to come home was that I wanted to fuck him...hadn't gotten off in a few days and was frustrated, but not in a position to get off the way I needed to (TMI alert..but masturbation for the most part tends to frustrate me more when I get to that point). My cranky/bitchy side was taking over for a multitude of reasons.

 

Well back to my main points (just needed to get a bit of background in)...during the bitch session, when he kept pressing for a why answer I responded with...of course you're fine...you've gotten your rocks off multiple times since I last did. I've been ready to climb the walls for days now (and he was make aware over those few days and promptly fell asleep lol...so not like I'm holding out on him or anything).

 

...and I let loose with a general sexual gripe I have about men I've encountered. While many men are perfectly ok with a woman taking care of them in a multitude of ways in which they are the focus (handjob, blowjob, boob fucking, even just sex where the male partner can just concentrate on his orgasm) with no expectation of the favor being returned to the female partner...I have never experienced a guy doing the same sort of thing...without expecting at the very least a handjob out of the situation.

 

Kind of like, 'I just did a really nice thing for you by rocketing you over the moon...and instead of allowing you the same courtesy you extend by letting me just drift along or roll over and go to sleep contented, I expect you to snap out of it and help me get there to.'

 

Well, this must have struck a chord with him somewhere...and he did it just a while ago. It started with me sucking on him and ended with him taking my favorite toy away (him), ripping the covers back and shoving me back so he could go down on me. 15 minutes later, after disturbing the neighbors...he promptly gets up and goes off to run an errand...

 

God it was HOT. :facelick:

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This was an issue we had to work on when we got back together. The first time we were together it was very much an issue of "well you got me hard now fix it". This time around after I let him know that that was an issue that has had a serious affect on me, he has changed his ways and makes it very clear that I do not always need to reciprocate.

 

Hopefully, your man has now learned his lesson and will remember it.

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Julie...Jeff is pretty a pretty giving partner, I don't want to give the wrong impression of him. I didn't want it to turn into him feeling like I'm keeping track of the number of times that I 'take care of him' to use for ammo...but to get the point across that you know, it would be nice if I could just lay back, relax and totally enjoy the afterglow and have no further obligation than that.

 

He came through with flying colors! :facelick: lol

 

My ex-husband was like that though (and a few other boyfriends as well)....when the alarm goes off I would want to snuggle up to him and he would put his arm around me. Then the nudging would start...my remedy was to do the handjob so I could still be mostly asleep...god I'm horrible...so he pretty much got his rocks off every morning, but never returned the favor without expectation. I hated that attitude.

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Who could not want to make sure that you were the focus of your lovemaking. MOST of what gets me off is knowing that I get to bring the MRS or my significant other to climax. I love to watch a woman cum and know that I was responsible. I just thought that was the way it was done. My parents must have taught me well to respect my women and what better way to respect them than to make sure that they cum first. That's just mutual respect in my book.

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