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The search for the single man continues.... sigh
Le sigh.
There are so many out there... why so difficult to find a good one?
First one- turned out to be a local guy; even though we both advertised as being from a city an hour away, he actually lived 7 mins away. He was married, but his wife wasn't too into playing, and we met her and she said she was okay with it, so the three of us played several times. Good times. Then he started getting more interested in guy-on-guy, which we weren't into, and he decided I made a great confidante and started telling me how he was going to hook up with an old male friend from high school, and was going to what seemed, quite frankly, creepy house parties (women douching with a bottle of beer, pouring it back in and putting it back in the fridge? seriously). Guess what, we stopped playing with him.
Second one- he started out the boyfriend of a playmate of PB's from a house party, but then she dumped him, and we kept playing with him, either in a 3some or just one-on-one. God, that was great. But alas, he fell in love with a lovely woman (bless 'em), and that was that.
Third one- We played with him once, 6 months ago, and while it was nice, we haven't been able to mesh schedules since then. Married?? Don't know. He DOES seem awfully busy.
Fourth one- I played with him at a house party. HOT!! Then invited him to our party, THEN heard from a woman claiming to be his wife. The situation was odd enough that we decided not to pursue that acquaintance.
This brings us to June. I really like a good MFM, and so does PB. So we started discreetly looking for a good guy to join us. Of course, once you add looking for single male to a profile, out they come!!
We started chatting with one fellow, looked like a nice guy, set up a drinks and ??? date for 2 Thursdays ago, that fell through, the one last week didn't happen either, so we made FIRM plans for this Thursday. I emailed him last night to confirm once again. Oh lord. His hotmail account is closed. His profile on the website is gone. What the hell? I can only conclude that he was married, wife found out and shut him down.
A 28 year old wants to know if he's too young. Probably.
A businessman can't show his face, even in his locked section (I can't gauge personality from a cock, he might be surprised to know).
Another guy wants to know if we can play during the day because he travels for work. Not sure about the connection between those two things. I can think of a better reason for why daytime play would work for him- like his wife expects him to be home at night?
So the search continues- maybe someday we'll find a smart, funny, sexy guy who wants to hook up once in a while for some smokin' hot sex. In the meantime, I at least have PB!!
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