I like the way you said that. Yeah, the wild sex parties and the hedonistic goings on get a lot of ascii ink, but really this stuff is about finding our own comfort zone with sharing our sexuality and happiness without the restrictions and psychological baggage society wants to dump into our bedrooms.

"... just the right number stick around..." I agree, I think that's the sweet spot.

And what a wonderful place to be in. We're not far from that ourselves. . .

Enjoy it.

=)

I've been thinking about this a lot lately too. I think we're there... good friends, good times.

I think we've recently arrived at the same place, and also, after six years. Yeah, you're right, just the right number stick around.

That's good to know. We have been swinging for about two years, and I was feeling a bit discouraged about not having things 'down' or 'set' so to speak. I do feel we are getting there but knowing that it takes about 6 years, actually makes me feel better. I feel like we are halfway there, we have some good friends and we are hitting our stride in somethings. We are learning, growing and adapting to what works for us.

Captain's Log, Star Date 20120212.1000. It was a wonderful party. Met new people; spent a great time with old friends. Regret that some were not able to be here owing to poor driving conditions. I have so much more energy lately. Felt yesterday evening like I was twenty-two years of age again. Feel the same this morning. And it makes me so very happy to see and hear my wife having fun. She is now speak of the men in her life as her "stable". How good is that?