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In Our Happy Place
My wife and I feel secure and happy. Part of this is the feeling that we have found our right places in The Lifestyle. It took six years to gain this feeling but looking back, it was not really a very steep road to traverse. We had no good notion of where we wanted to be when we started. It's one of those things that is difficult to define but you know you are there when you arrive. It's not like there are no new things to learn or new adventures to live. The little nuisances that used to cause upset are easier to laugh off. We have developed warm and enduring relationships but none of these feel as binding or complicated as family relationships. People come into our lives and go out, we have fun, we share laughs; just the right number stick around for the long haul. Far behind is the almost desperate feeling of, "we'll never make friends in this lifestyle."
It might seem a little prideful for me to put this up in front of all of you. But maybe it will serve a purpose. Those who are just beginning might be concerned that no light can be seen at the end of the tunnel. Keep chugging. The rewards are very satisfying.
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