Everyone wants to be wanted. I think that's one of the very special aspects of swinging - we get to openly express our sexual desire for others and experience their desire for us. It sure feels good to know other folks are excited about having sex with us. But the other side of that coin is we need to keep the expressions of that desire in control because it can easily get into the uncomfortable zone. And every couple has their own unique boundaries on the comfort zone. I think the odds are pretty good other folks have noticed that yall intend to attend the event and are looking forward to meeting you - maybe they're just shy about contacting you and establishing expectations that may or may not pan out.

The proof is in the pudding....

I'm sorry you're feeling unwanted, but you really shouldn't let that get you down. More often than not, we go to a party with no email contacts beforehand. The whole point of going to the party is to see "old" friends and make new friends. So we just wait to see who actually shows and makes a connection with once we're there.

I'm sure ya'll will have a great time and those people will see for themselves how much fun you are.

=)

Oh I'm not really that upset. This is a large event at a hotel, halloween party. So the party aspect is a bit tame since it's in the hotel. Any post party fun is up to whoever invites whoever back to their room. So it's a little more hit or miss what happens after. Thanks for the pep talks