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First Date Jitters!

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Swingly

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Hi All - it's Mrs. Swingly here just checking in to share that Mr. Swingly and I have our first couple date tomorrow night with a couple we met on Swinglifestyle. Mr. Swingly and I had decided early on that we would not "host" any two-on-two get togethers until we had a better handle on all this. So we're not. The other couple is cool with it and, although we suggested splitting the cost of a room, they insisted on covering it. After some protest, I agreed to let that happen. So tonight I'm going to get my finger- and toenails done, and tomorrow evening, well....we're gonna meet up with this couple and have our first "swinger" date. Hopefully both of them will be "as advertised" and we will all get along together and have a great time.

 

Mr. Swingly is excited because the woman is only 4'11" and weighs 100 pounds. Lots you can do with that, I'd imagine! (and I DO imagine... mmmm....) The guy looks pretty good too - although for me, looks aren't everything - personality goes a long, long way with me. I mean, look how fast that shifty little English bastard got his cock in me at that first party 10 days ago! He certainly wasn't a "looker" - but definitely an opportunist! ;) So at any rate, I'm ready to just dive in and have fun. I am, however, experiencing a mild case of the jitters. Surprising to me, but I am.

 

Any advice those of you out there with more experience have would be welcomed and appreciated. I'm bringing my own toiletries, and sex goodies, big supply of condoms, and basically that's it. Mr. Swingly and I have made one solid rule and that's same room swingin' only, so I feel pretty safe. Mr. Swingly is a BIG DUDE. You'd have to have some kind of death wish to mess with him. :eek:

 

After tomorrow evening's meet-up, there's a new years' eve party at a local club that starts on the 30th, and we're going to that. Mr. Swingly is hoping that we will hook up with a couple we met at our first event 10 days ago. The woman has an AMPLE bosom and equally ample be-donka-donk, so he's pretty excited about that. The mister of that couple is a 'meh' for me - but again, seemed like a nice guy and who knows? The following night is the main event at Eros - so we're gettin' our swerve on plenty this week.

 

It's so hard to believe that we've only been at this for a couple of weeks now. It's also pretty eery that I have taken to this lifestyle and its possibilities like a duck to water, and am pretty clear that there aren't going to be too many regrets. (I'm sure we'll make mistakes - after all, as an old man I once knew said to me "If you're not making mistakes - you're probably not doin' anything!") :lol:

 

So that's my check-in for now. I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas and got "a load" in their stocking. (Well, hang on...those who WANTED a load, got a load....oh! you know what I meant).

 

Mrs. Swingly

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One thing my wife brings is a pack of Always feminine wipes. I also make sure we have a bottle of lubricant in our goodie bag, though it rarely gets used. I also bring, a bottle of water or soda (and alcohol if you want) and some type of snack...granola bar, energy bar, etc.

 

Not sure of your plans but make sure you don't all go to the hotel in one car for whatever reason. Being able to leave is always good.

 

Sleeping over in the same room is always a question for me. Depends how the night goes.

 

We were the same way with jumping in with both feet and have been having fun ever since :) Enjoy the evening!

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Thanks much for the advice. We have regular wipes, but I only have one of the "Always" - I'll pick up a box at the store. I'm with you on the sleeping over part. I think that's going to be done with select couples only and they will have to be "regulars". It just seems imprudent to go to sleep in the presence of people you don't know very well - it's okay when you're camping, but in a confined and non-visible space - I'm with ya. And I'm also with you on the not going anywhere in the same car. The option to skeeedattle is one I will always want to keep open. Ya never know....

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we've had two "sleep overs" turn out not so great. The first the other girl was PMSing really bad. It was after a big party at a swing club and we had planned this for awhile. And it was in a typical motel room, two queen beds, not much space. The second was in a cabin, but just alot of drama ensued as the other woman got upset that her husband and my wife were playing longer than us. It was quite uncomfortable the next day.

 

But we recently slept over with friends at a hotel suite I had rented for a party for the other guy's b-day. That worked out well..morning sex with a playmate was great. We know them well so it was not so much a crap shoot!

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