Mrs. Swingly here, ya'll....Weeeeeell... let me just say that we had fun, fun, fun! We only got about 4 hours worth of sleep before we had to get up for work this morning, but it was worth it. That fact gives rise to another "big lesson":

Big Swinging Lesson No. 2: When swinging on a work night, make sure to give yourself a clear curfew, let the other couple know and stick to it. Otherwise, prepared to be knackered!

Okay, but that's the only big lesson that came out of our meeting with the folks we hooked up with on Swing Lifestyle. They turned out to be the perfect couple for our first time. Very genuine, laid-back, experienced and easy-going. Attractive people too. (God this coffee tastes GOOD this morning. ) Anyway, where was I? Oh yes...the low-down.

We met up with this couple at an Applebee's in a nearby suburb. They had picked the place since they were hosting the motel room and we made the drive. We got there only about a half-hour in advance of the meeting time so sat down in the bar and ordered. We wanted to get a light dinner before the night's activities and had hoped we could do that before these folks showed up as they had expressed and interest only in drinks and appetizers. But we only had a few minutes and that worked out fine. They arrived right on time (we could see the door from our perches in the bar). They took a seat in the regular restaurant portion, but we quickly made arrangements with our server to get our food brought out to their table, went over and introduced ourselves and there was an instant ease. (the "ease" was actually, to me, more important than the attraction as I was nervous to be begin with, but that quickly went away).

So we ate the food when it arrived and they had some appetizers too. Mr. Swingly had a couple of drinks just to relax, but I was cold turkey because alcohol does strange things to me, like makes me bright red in the neck and face so not great if you don't want to potentially worry a new sex partner. Plus, I think 100% sobriety on first meet-up for at least one partner is a great idea - even though two drinks did not (could not) actually impair Mr. Swingly in any way. Anyways, after we had some food and small talk, it was on to the motel they had chosen which was only about two blocks away from the Applebee's. These two were so considerate that they had already rented the room, stocked the fridge with water, a few sodas and beers and they had also brought along some whiskey. They also brought their iPod and iPod speakers so we could have some music to make out to, which was really nice.

When we got to the motel room with the two double beds, it wasn't long (like five minutes) 'til business time. The fem of our new couple friends and Mr. Swingly went to their bed, and I was on the other bed with the other Mr. I made several declarations of potential clumsiness and confessed that other than a brief daliance with an over-eager Englishman at the one and only party we'd been to not quite two weeks before, I had experienced only Mr. Swingly as a sexual partner for the past ten years. Other Mr. assured me that I would do fine, and proceeded to massage my legs and through my fishnets, and helped me to get undressed by taking off my boots and leather skirt. (Yes...I was in an Applebee's in fishnets and a leather skirt. But it was tasteful! I promise.) I could see Mr. Swingly helping other Mrs. to get her clothes off, but not much beyond that and other-mister was concerned for me since I'd never seen Mr. Swingly with another woman and he kept trying to tactfully block my view. He needn't have worried as I have a very vivid imagination and had run through the scenario in my head several times. All was copasetic.

Anyway, the physical size difference between me and his wife also had me a bit worried. She is 4'10" and weighs in at a whopping 100 pounds, and I am 5'9" at 195. He was 5'8" and looked like a stiff wind would blow him away. Maybe 150? But he didn't let that slow him down at all. He was nicer looking than his pictures, which was a very nice surprise indeed, and he was kind and considerate and said what he was going to do before he did it, so there were no surprises. We got it on for quite a while there and I looked over and saw that Mr. Swingly was getting some tail, so all was well and we weren't having a repeat of the Englishman.

After the first go-round, other-Mr. and I laid there while Mr. Swingly and other-Mrs. continued to get it on. We tried to be quiet as we talked about movies we both knew and quoted lines from them, but we giggled some anyway which was fun, and somehow got on the subject of famous Cajun chefs. (Reaslly...I have no idea how we got there). So I jumped up and got my iPhone and was looking up the names of Cajun chef's and Mr. Swingly looked up from his activities to enquire as to what I was doing and we laughed at the absurdity of it.

The other-Mrs. was so sweet and had expressed that she was "very bi" and told Mr. Swingly that she hoped I would kiss her. Well, I was feeling very good after my second round with other-Mr. so went over to pay her a nice long visit and did much more than kiss her. I have listed myself as bi-curious so as to take the pressure of expectation off, but if the woman is attractive and nice (and attractive is a package deal comprised of much more than mere physical attributes) then I am full-on bisexual. And I know this despite the fact that prior to last night I'd only ever experienced one other woman in my life. That, my dear Swingers Board friends, is about to change.

So other Mrs. and I cuddled and talked and finally wound up like two teenagers at a pajama party, chattering like magpies and just enjoying getting to know each other, while the misters sat on the other bed, drank some beers and talked about man stuff. At one point other-Mr. brought out a camera and took a few photos of me and other Mrs. At 1:45 a.m. (and let me assure you, I was SHOCKED when I saw the time as we had gotten to the room at 8:00 p.m.), Mr. Swingly very prudently said that he was sorry to break up the party, but we had to go to work in a few hours. So, reluctantly, we left them after cordial goodbyes and an understanding that we would definitely do this again with us hosting the room nearer to where we live. And I have to say, I'm looking forward to the next time.

Thanks for reading! I hope everyone has a safe, and SEXY time on New Year's. I know we're going to do so as we have two lifestyle parties to attend which I'll tell you all about afterward.